My Online Dating Mistake

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When I say women should look outside of their dating preferences and date different type of men, I’m talking as both a guy scorned and as someone who makes the very same mistake. My online dating mistake, one eFlirt expert has called me out on, is seeking too many A Listers. I’m sending way too many messages to my top list while ignoring my B and C Lists. Why is this a mistake? Because I’m pigeon holding myself to one type of girl. That never works!

One friend told me women know fairly early if they are attracted to a guy. Several responses on twitter about my listing idea leads me to believe women have a yes/no policy to dating. Either they will date you or not. Generally, women who appear on our A Lists have several thousand guys trying to get into their pants on a daily basis. We shouldn’t expect them to respond, more than likely they will not. By sending messages to my A List exclusively, I’m asking to get rejected, instead of having success with wonderful women on my B and C Lists. I KNOW I need to diversity in reaching out to potential dates by sending messages to all types of women, but some days I struggle following my own damn advice.

In order to find the right woman, I’m need to date plenty of other women. The perfect woman isn’t going to fall out of the sky, land in my lap and fall instantly in love with me. I need to maintain some perspective when it comes to online dating. That’s where the real valuable women lie.

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Scientists at the University of Rochester have found that women who wear a red outfit on a date with a man will be treated more generously and hold his attention more carefully than women who don't wear the color.
Through five psychological tests, researchers show the color red makes men feel more romantic toward women. And the best part? Guys are unconscious of the affects the color plays in their attraction - all they know is that they want you. Bad.

Even more interesting: Male study subjects say they would spend more cash on a woman wearing a red shirt, than the same woman in a blue shirt.

When wearing red, a woman was also more likely to score an invitation to the prom and to be treated to a more luxurious date.

Red has always been linked with romantic and sexual matters, from red hearts on Valentine's Day, to red-light districts. But experts say the current findings have clear implications for the fashion business, product design and promotion.

So wear red undies, don a red sweater, or just swipe on red lipstick - he wont be able to resist you!