I’m curious person who loves deep conversations and meaningful connections . I enjoy psychology, philosophy, and exploring interesting ideas about people and life.I am introverted

I teach English online, 🇺🇸and I truly enjoy talking to people from different backgrounds — it’s always inspiring and fun. I often take part in speaking clubs where we discuss a wide range of topics, and that’s one of my favorite things to do!

I’m an ambivert — sometimes more introverted, sometimes very social. It really depends on the moment, the place, and the energy around me.
I enjoy conversations that flow naturally
Most of the time i am introverted.

Sometimes I can be very talkative and open, sometimes quiet and observant. I’m always okay with both, in myself and in others.
I have my own rhythm and energy, and I really appreciate spaces where people feel relaxed being themselves.

I’m easygoing, respectful, and attentive to boundaries.

My instagram: online_english_aruzhan

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

My biggest dream was meeting all the people on the earth, hand shaking with them...
I can say it is still same for me. And i am trying my best here in CS.

Travel is a balance of trust and risk, for both the guest and the host.🦋

The traveler risks herself — stepping into the unknown, not knowing who she will meet, not knowing if she will be safe. She opens herself to strangers, vulnerable, accepting that mistakes and misunderstandings can happen. She is human, not a robot.

The host risks her home — her property, her space, the things she values. Opening one’s home to a stranger always involves uncertainty. If a host is extremely strict about every object, every appliance, every detail, they must be aware that travelers are human. They can forget, make mistakes, or misinterpret instructions. Being excessively controlling while expecting someone else to occupy your space is a paradox: it is not trust, it is control. If you cannot allow for human error, then perhaps opening your home is not the right choice. But if a host treats things as things, without extreme anxiety, then hosting is possible.

The same principle applies to travelers. If a traveler is overly cautious, constantly checking every detail, sending constant updates, questioning every aspect of the host — the experience stops being travel and becomes a form of control. Hitchhiking or Couchsurfing only works if one accepts a certain level of risk. Without that, the purpose is lost.

Trust and risk exist on both sides. The guest trusts that the host will respect her humanity; the host trusts that the guest will respect the home. Mistakes may happen, boundaries may be tested, but this is part of the exchange. This balance — a tolerance for imperfection and a willingness to accept risk — is what makes travel human, meaningful, and alive.

Communication is essential. At the start, the host and traveler must break the initial distance, talk, and understand the atmosphere. Friendly interaction builds trust and comfort, especially since travelers are often in a new country and can be confused or lost. Hosts should be welcoming and human; travelers should be open and respectful.

Reviews should be used thoughtfully. Negative reviews are important only in serious situations: deliberate damage, aggressive behavior, or risks to others. Minor mistakes, small misunderstandings, or personal preferences — like leaving a window open or preferring apples over pineapples — should be resolved through communication, not judgment. Excessive negative reviews over trivial matters create tension and undermine the spirit of Couchsurfing.

Ultimately, Couchsurfing works when both sides accept human imperfection, communicate openly, and treat each other with respect. It is about shared experiences, learning, and connection, not control, tension, or petty judgment. Travelers and hosts both take risks, and both need trust, understanding, and goodwill to make the experience meaningful.

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People are different, and everyone has their own preferences. One person may like strawberries, another prefers raspberries. Couchsurfing exists for meeting different people and experiencing these differences. Getting upset over small personal preferences is unnecessary and misplaced.

Equally important is the attitude of the host. A host should be open, friendly, and approachable. Distance, coldness, or excessive formality creates tension and misunderstanding. Travelers are often in a new country, navigating unfamiliar places and routines, which can make them anxious. If the host is distant or tense, it amplifies that anxiety and can hinder connection.

Couchsurfing works best when hosts are welcoming and travelers feel comfortable, creating a space for trust, understanding, and human interaction.

the essence of Couchsurfing is something deeper. It is a space where you encounter different people, different cultures, and situations that challenge your assumptions. It is about learning, understanding, and human connection.

Some people complain about trivial things — “I wanted strawberries, but they wanted pineapple; I don’t like them because our preferences didn’t match.” This misses the point. Couchsurfing exists to meet people who are different from you, to experience diversity, and to break your own stereotypes. Maybe someone likes oranges, maybe someone likes pineapple — that’s the whole point. The platform is about openness, curiosity, and learning from others, not about enforcing uniformity or perfect alignment in preferences.

Couchsurfing is about trust, risk, communication, and shared human experience. It’s for people who want to connect, understand, and grow through encountering difference. Complaining about minor preferences misses the true purpose of the platform.

Interests

• photography
• music
• teaching
• psychology
• religion
• science
• study abroad
• travelling
• russian language
• phylosophy
• exploring new places
• horror movies
• behavioral psychology
• moovies
• korean drama
• studying english
• studying languages
• kazakh culture
• how to choose profession

Music, Movies, and Books

J Cole , Arctic monkey

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

💕I remember the very first time I started my travels through CouchSurfing — my first destination was Egypt. I met so many interesting and kind people there, and it felt almost like family. I received so much support, and our interactions were incredibly warm and heartfelt. That country truly left a mark on my heart, and I always remember those moments with a smile.

CouchSurfing has been the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me. Through it, I’ve met incredibly soulful and generous people, and many of them I still keep in touch with to this day. This experience is unforgettable — the way I started my first journey through CouchSurfing will always stay with me. It taught me the beauty of human connection, the joy of sharing, and the warmth that people can bring into your life.

One of the hardest things about CouchSurfing is when you travel to another country and find yourself missing the people you met, the connections you made. Every time I look back at the references, I remember those moments and feel that warmth all over again.

CouchSurfing has been one of the most amazing experiences of my life. I’ve met incredible, soulful, and generous people, and many of them I still stay in touch with. Those memories — the laughter, the conversations, the support — are unforgettable. It taught me the beauty of human connection and how much people can touch your heart.❤️

I will never forget the people who have left me references. Every time I look through them, I remember the moments we shared — what we did, how we spent our time together.🥺💕

I always think of these people with a smile. The memories of laughter, conversations, and shared experiences stay in my heart. CouchSurfing has given me connections that are unforgettable and incredibly meaningful.

It’s amazing to realize how much people can touch your life, even through a brief encounter or a shared experience. These moments and these people have truly left a lasting mark on me.🥹🦋

I am so grateful to CouchSurfing for bringing such soulful people into my life and giving me unforgettable experiences that I will never forget.

My first CouchSurfing experience was the most amazing thing — it felt like discovering a whole new world. The people I met were so kind, warm, and genuine, and the memories we created together left a lasting mark on my heart.

Every moment, every conversation, every shared experience feels like a gift. CouchSurfing has given me connections, inspiration, and unforgettable impressions that will stay with me for my entire life. Truly, the first CouchSurfing experience is one of the most wonderful things anyone can ever have.💕💕💕

Teach, Learn, Share

Couchsurfing and hitchhiking have taught me a lot, and I truly value every experience and every person I meet along the way. Couchsurfing has been one of the most meaningful experiences in my life — it helped me break stereotypes, become braver, and step outside my comfort zone with openness and curiosity.

My first experiences taught me a great deal, and with every new one I clearly feel how I continue to grow. Couchsurfing has helped me develop strong communication skills: how to communicate respectfully, how to read the situation, how to respect personal boundaries, and which topics are better to avoid in certain contexts. It also taught me proper communication manners and the importance of tact.

I have experienced very different situations — staying with hosts who had zero references, and sometimes with people I met spontaneously. Each experience helped me become more intuitive, attentive, and respectful. Over time, I started to feel the subtleties of communication more deeply: how to behave appropriately, how to be a considerate guest, and how to interact with people in a calm and respectful way.

With each experience, I feel that I am developing and becoming a more conscious version of myself. I am no longer the same person I was at the beginning — I’ve learned from mistakes, grown through experience, and gained a deeper understanding of people, boundaries, and mutual respect.

Countries I’ve Lived In

Kazakhstan