smiling
funny
curious
reckless
amazed (or dumb, same same)
always ready
so little eccentric

I apply quantum physic precepts at a social level : The only thing you can be sure about is right here right now.
Litteraly at sight.

Rick says : Nothing you think matters matters.
Whatever.

If you ask for a couch or if I request one, I read your profile.

Nowadays I'm living in Nîmes, I'm hosting, my everyday life is very busy, I do make time to meet people and make new friends but I'm not a tourist guide.
Rarely up for hosting on weekends

For whoever cares : my name is Barbara

** ** IF YOU DON'T READ MY PROFILE, I DON'T CARE ! ** **

There is NO secret code below.
This is just a mix of braggings and wits (I wish), I wrote myself about myself, talk is cheap.
Nevertheless, I don't lie, I don't cheat, I stick as much as I can to what I say and I think twice in order to say what I mean.

Then I'd say :
It doesn't matter where,
it doesn't matter when,
it is all about who.
I'm utterly glad and grateful for having that much traveled to that many mind-blowing PEOPLE :D

PHILOSOPHY

Vivre comme si on allait mourir demain,
apprendre comme si on allait vivre toujours

Growing old is my blessing
I don't have more answers, but far less questions

Mika, a wise friend, says : you don't have any control on what people do, but you've got total control on how you react.
(endless work in progress)

我为什么加入 Couchsurfing

I gave up on touristic books

CS is a social website, still no need for heaps of friends I've never met, as I don't want to meet people but not really see them
I'm not a customer of my own life I'm not a product of others

Consequently : Stop sending friend requests if we havent met, I don't even look at it

I don't ever think respect can be won or lost,
It's just the minimum and natural interaction between 2 fellows human beings. An interaction is not a relationship.
Once in a while, chance puts on my way someone to share my singularity with.
There only starts a relationship,
maybe a friendship,
maybe not

But everything's I R L
Let's give a chance one to another. If we don't match, we shake hands and we split
No hassle

兴趣

I've got many !
Basically : traveling, reading, writing, reading, drinking, reading, eating, reading, making party

Few more :

Card games (I know heaps and it is not enough, it is never enough) board games and chess

This famous, however so little understood, World Wide Wild Deep Fried Dark Net Nasty Web (if a hacker reads this, I'm single)

Maps of everywhere and mostly of anywhere

Churches /Temples/Holy Places/Libraries, besides being most of the time very pretty, they're the best spots to dream or philosophize or catch up on 45 min of sleep as well

Watching unknown people in their everyday lives, it is like the most important place on earth

I'm amazed by people able to speak many langages and to learn a new one on the get go, looks a superpower to me

I weirdly get along with whiny and/or hot-headed people (they help me to be a better person, thanks to you pricks xoxo)

I've got a soft corner for anyone who is doing anything well

我做过的一件不可思议的事情

I forgave

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