First I dream my painting then I paint my dream 🪂

The real tragedy is that the intelligent
people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence
The second tragedy is that nature has given the upper hand to brute force rather than civilisation making mankind fall in periods of deep regression and barbarism triumphing and making the law.

Sadly, the history repeats itself. Hopefully we can make a jump from quantity to quality with the help of technology.
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Not afraid to have painfully uncomfortable discussions on a first meeting either ;)
If you're used to people who beat around the bush you're going to find me very confrontational and 'rude' which, honestly, I prefer to being 'nice'.

My biggest culture crush at the moment is South Korea. Planning 3 months of living there but preparing myself in many aspects. Other than that, I live in a tiny southeast European country that's trying to bloom into something hybrid between Europe and Asia . I am fascinated by southeast Asian countries and they're next on my list to visit. I love meeting new people and being social.

Time IS MONEY

Despite the fact that I love meeting new people I also filter alot who I gift my time and attention to. Sorry if we never hang out but if you're not someone I consider interesting I won't waste my time with you. Feel insulted all you want or take at least the initiative to edit your CS profile in a fashion that makes you look like you've travelled farther than the nearest village, have read from start to end at least 10 300+ page books in your life so far and are well aware of the current social trends world-wide. I judge profiles and if you appear an ignorant I'll gladly skip it. My presence is a privilege you must be worthy of as per my judgement.

I like to view myself as a curator, cultivator and a loving authoritarian figure but I'm open to reasonable feedback and critique.

Ps: Sexual predators need to stay away from my profile cause I don't mind escalating and things do escalate pretty quickly where I'm from. I prefer people whose major tension point in their bodies is their brain not their genitals. Stay in your lane and be more intellectual less 'sensual' and you'll have my respect. Be correct or I won't honor you with my presence, time and attention.

Also, if you want superficial agreeable conversations you'll hate me. I'm all about arguing and finding common LOGICAL ground .

I love talking about interesting books to read, geopolitics, gender studies,sports, philosophy, psychology and like to have my BOUNDARIES RESPECTED . Noticed how I put that specific term in capitals? Yes, it means alot. If you have a dictator-like personality WE Won't Get Along so just don't reach out cause I have Very Strong Beliefs and am not shy to advocate for those and won't waste time with what I consider Lost cases.

Kiko, Mia and Ulpia are my three cats. I love cats and am definitely a cat person, dogs are cute but have much basic personalities compared to the felines as per my experience . If I were an animal I'd be a Lynx or a black Panther, again, big cats. Yes, I'm a CatLady but let's not forget that Lions are big cats after all ;)

On a personal note: Allow yourself to feel all feelings is the first step to processing them. Anger and disappointment are two very human sentiments but we should not act upon them, at least not immediately.

Rather, we should feel them and try to rationalize the real cause of it then work into defining how we will handle it.

Whatever way you abuse your body: alcohol, drugs, not proper sleeping, risky activities , trauma your body stores it and it comes back to you in form of diseas later in life. The brain is a muscle that is trained by contious intellectual and physical activity .

Repressed feelings lead to autoimmune system responses, cancer, mental problems and whatnot.

If you think my profile is horrible you'll be horrified to see for yourself when we meet that nothing I wrote above is a lie. I'm 2X more of that in person .

Thanx for your attention and enjoy your day!

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

Meet new people and create lifelong bonds. I believe friendship is the ultimate goal when it comes to human relations.

Interests

• fashion
• beauty
• chocolate
• white wine
• cheese
• cycling
• hiking
• geopolitics
• greek islands
• thai massage
• southamerica
• makeup
• asian culture
• classic literature
• southeast asia
• southkorea
• skincare
• guerlain perfumes

Music, Movies, and Books

Why 30 is not the new 20| 4 hours workweek| 5 love languages| Women are from venus men are from Mars | La pelle ~ Kurzio Malaparte | Anima Mundi ~ Suzana Tamaro | Crime and Punishment ~ Dostoyevski | Karamazov Brothers ~ Dostoyevski | Totem and Taboo ~ Z. Freud | Ego is the enemy ~ R. Holiday

I mainly only listen to Albanian music as a way of educating myself spiritually to a higher level and I could share with you my playlist . Music is maybe the first form or worship we had that didn't rely on materials not sure why it's mostly seen as entertainment and not the most effective educating tool nowadays, art in general.

I have created a playlist named Albanian 2000s hits, have a look if you care:

https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLp6ircv75sUtV7jK3_8LyjK-2Gi9c_Y8V

While I'm quite serious and formal in a professional and social setting my alter ego is an artist on steroids that is also quite extravagant and in your face.

My suggests for old Albanian movies are: 14 vjec dhender / Groom at 14 ; Dollia e dasmes time / My weddings toast ; Lulekuqet mbi mure / Poppeys on walls ; Mimoza llastica / Spoiled Mimosa ; Shoku yne Tili / Our friend Tili ; Taulanti kerkon moter / Taulant asks for a sister / Shpella e pirateve ; Pirates cave / Zedhenesi I grave ; Women spokesman

You can't find them on YouTube as per copyright infringement but you can ask me and I can provide you the link and summary.

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

I've cycled 210 km, my new record | Looking forward to the ride of my life in Italian Riviera | Would love to ride in Switzerland or Czech Republic

Teach, Learn, Share

Teach Albanian, Italian

What I Can Share with Hosts

I'm a good storyteller, can crack hilarious jokes, can give you thorough insights about dating wether ur a guy or gal, can cook my fav Albanian dish, overall good company and deep insights about human psychology

Countries I’ve Visited

Austria, Belgium, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Bulgaria, Croatia, Czech Republic, Egypt, England, France, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Italy, Kosovo, Macedonia, Montenegro, Netherlands, Slovakia, Spain, Turkey, United Arab Emirates