I’m fundametally optimistic, whethere that comes from nature or being nurtur. Being optimistic is simply keeping, one’s head pointed towards the sun & feets moving forward.

This is the most important and crucial period of your/our lives, its for what you do now and what you decide now at this age may well determine which way your life shall go. The question is, whether you have a proper, a solid, and a sound blueprint or not?, i may want to suggest some of the things that should be in your life’s blueprint. Number one in your life’s blueprint should be a deep belief in your own dignity, your own worth and your own somebodiness. Don’t allow anybody to make you feel that you are nobody. Always feel that you count. Always feel that you have worth, and always feel that your life has ultimate significance.
Secondly, in your life’s blueprint, you must have as a basic principle the determination to achieve excellence in your various fields of endeavour. You’re going to be deciding as the days and the years unfold what you will do in life, what your life’s work will be. Once you discover what it will be, set out to do it and to do it well. Be a bush if you can’t be a tree. If you can’t be a highway, just be a trail. If you can’t be the sun, be a star, for it isn’t by size that you win or you fail “first attempted in learning“ just be the best of whatever you think you are.
Finally, in your life’s blueprint must be a commitment to the eternal principals of beauty, love, and justice. Well... life for none of us has been a crystal stair, but we must keep moving, we must keep going. If you can’t fly, run. If you can’t run, walk. If you can’t walk, crawl, but by all means, Kᗴᗴᑭ ᗰOᐯIᑎᘜ.....

Last and least enjoy people with depth as I do if it’s ain’t better, people who speak up they mind and who speak their emotions from a twisted mind. Spending quality time with a life enduring partner “if any“, laughing the moment, creating a wonderful memory and being humble and kind, travel new places explore foreign lands, new culture and cuisines, acquiring knowledge, always up for any game of an adventures but not into playing mind games. Cycling, scuba diving, love to cook, writing, reads and public speaking, but i also do enjoy doing an absolutely nothing at all at times!

keep the ball moving and the people around you interested.

我为什么加入 Couchsurfing

Do we find friends or we make friends?
If you say we find friends! Then we already friend so act like it :)
If you say we make friends! Then let's make each other good friends :)

PS. Killing your ego and accepting you are an insignificant nobody:

We are familiar with “the beautiful.” We see it every day in the things we find pleasant. “The sublime,” on the other hand, is different. It’s more than just aesthetically enticing. It’s overwhelming. It makes us feel inferior, and it has the ability to engulf us. It’s found when we are in awe at the might and power of nature, it’s experienced in the emotion of love, etc. It’s a heightened sense of existence beyond comfort and normalcy. To fully indulge in the sublime, we have to give up a part of ourselves. We are forced to accept a degree of inferiority for a perception of something greater. The risk of vulnerability is balanced by the reward of ecstasy. No one is immune from experiencing this wonder, but an arrogant ego and a deep sense of personal pride get in the way. They seek ecstasy without accepting vulnerability, and they then find themselves cornered with fear and insecurity. There is nothing desirable about it. It leads to a kind of paralysis that steals the potential of experiencing some of the great joys in life. Being a nobody, you don’t have this problem. You accept that you’re already naked, so you may as well put it on display to try and gain something. You no longer have anything to lose. Kill your ego.

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."
Remember "You are free to say or do anything in your life but your freedom is limited when it touches somebody else's freedom"

Culture:
The world's local culture is quickly getting replaced with McDonald’s and Starbucks. Everything is a copy of a copy of a copy. I consider myself very lucky to have seen at least some genuine culture before every country becomes a cheap clone of the US. There are still adventures to be found and unfamiliar cultures to be a part of. In the end, a pile of money can never replace the wasted time of sitting around doing a crappy job, no matter how much you earn. Life is about cultural experiences, adventures, and the rare connections with the people you meet along the way. You can see the beauty in anyone, if you look from the right angle.

兴趣

Cultures, Politics, educations and human relationships

• writing
• music festivals
• reading
• traveling
• camping
• scuba diving
• group travel
• phylosophy
• waterfalls
• deep conversations
• meeting new people
• beers
• riding bike
• public speaking

音乐、电影和书籍

Books:
- Thinking fast and slow
- The 7 habits of highly effective people
- Think and make it happen
- How to win friends and influence people
- Think and grow rich
- The alchemist
- 1984
- Animal Farm
- Lord of the Flies
- The Secret Garden
- Hamlet
- Wuthering Heights
- Great Expectations

我做过的一件不可思议的事情

Change people lives to way better

教，学，和分享

You can give people knowledge, but you can't make them think. Some people want to remain fools, only because the truth requires change.

The news that you read is the same news that I read and sometimes we can't tell is its new news or old news. Individuals so moved by eco-centricity and arrogance, greed and selfishness, manifesting in racism, bigotry and hatred, with no interest other than serving of their own self-interest, and their ability to do so, come from segmenting and dividing us in ways that we buy-in to a certain antagonistic narrative of the other. Today if you have some understanding in this world so you can be able to re-align to an understanding that says that our deepest strength is not when we are apart, but only when we come together in ways that we uniquely can.

How you see people are not indicative of who they are, but how you see people, it will tell you a lot about yourself! If you perceive somebody solely through the way dress or the colour of their skin, whether they have a certain accent or not; the fundamental question that you have to ask yourself is "Why do you see it that way?"

Your organs of sensory perception, they are not limited to the eyes that you see with, the ears you hear with, the tongue that you taste with, hands that you touch with, even the minds that you think with. But you have a primary organ of cognition that will synthesise all of this information as it goes into you in various ways; and if you don't know why it's processing in the way that it is, it's just going to regurgitate the same challenges that we see day in and day out.

Do you get what I'm saying? You may not get what am saying! 🤣🤣! Let me simplify it for you! Sometimes we take the most simplistic level of understanding, because all we're seeing is what it is that we see. But we're not getting to the depth of certain realities, and this is imperative to be able to reflect upon now, because in your work you will have full opportunity to decide who it is you will serve and who it is you will not serve, and you have to ask yourself today: "What will somebody need to look like for me to not be there for them? What colour of the skin will they need to have, what will the texture of their hair need to be or what part of the world will they need to come from, so that my education, my training, my skills will not be used for their benefit?"

What allows for the perpetuation of hate and bigotry in this world, the systematic and structural mechanisms that seek to just oppress through iniquitous means. Are not those individuals who go out perpetrate, but so many more of us who have the ability to do something about it, but we simply sit back and do nothing?

The Swastika represents the darkest potential of humanity. It represents that there are so many people who are so motivated by their hate and bigotry that their entire objective was the annihilation of our Jewish brothers and sisters from this world. It also represents to me a second dark potential of humanity as well, that those individuals who sought to perpetuate that genocidal violence, were only able to be successful because there were so many others who had the means to stop them but just sat back and watched and did nothing. Where the line is drawn is not just on those who engage in acts of hatred and inequity and those who speak out against them but individuals who are arguably just as bad as those who perpetrate that violence because they have the ability to do something, but they just sit back and watch. And the irony of today is when you sit wearing the same exact clothing as the people sitting around you, where you are probably more similar externally than you have ever been before to people who are different. The recognition has to come, that there will be certain things that some of us go through that the rest of us will never see and there are certain things we will only have the ability to stop because of the unique power and privilege that we have been afforded, to be able to serve those who are under-served and underprivileged. But that is an individual decision and you have to start to think about it deeply from right now. And beyond the individual interactions on systemic levels, there are things that take place whether we recognise them or not. In the wake of a lot of hatred and bigotry, people have come to me and said, ‘what can we do to help you?’ ‘where is it that we can stand with you and how can we be a means of support?’ ‘what can we do to help you heal?’

#GoForward and be the reason that people have hope in this world and never that reason people dread it.

我可以与沙发主分享些什么

whiskey and good conversations
To make you feel that you have home everywhere
All types of good & positive vibes that keep you moving forward

我游览过的国家

Algeria, Australia, Belgium, Cambodia, Canada, China, Costa Rica, Croatia, Cyprus, Ecuador, Egypt, France, Germany, Greece, Hong Kong, Hungary, Iceland, India, Indonesia, Ireland, Italy, Jordan, Kazakhstan, Kiribati, Lebanon, Maldives, Malta, Mexico, Mongolia, Morocco, Myanmar, Nepal, Netherlands, Netherlands Antilles, Philippines, Poland, Portugal, Russian Federation, Serbia, Singapore, South Africa, Spain, Sweden, Syrian Arab Republic, Thailand, Tunisia, Turkey, Ukraine, United Arab Emirates, United Kingdom, United States, Uzbekistan

我居住过的国家

Australia, Libya, Malaysia, United Kingdom