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Overview

  • 4 references 3 Confirmed & Positive
  • Fluent in English; learning French, Spanish
  • 41, Female
  • Member since 2007
  • Institutional Advancement (marketing, development, admiss...
  • Yes please.
  • From West Chester, PA, USA
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About Me

CURRENT MISSION

To live, laugh, and learn.

ABOUT ME

My personality type is INFP.

The primary mode of living for an INFP is focused internally, where they deal with things according to how they feel about them, or how they fit into their personal value system.

INFPs are focused on making the world a better place for people. Their primary goal is to find out their meaning in life. What is their purpose? How can they best serve humanity in their lives? They are idealists and perfectionists, who drive themselves hard in their quest for achieving the goals they have identified for themselves

INFPs are highly intuitive about people. They rely heavily on their intuitions to guide them, and use their discoveries to constantly search for value in life. They are on a continuous mission to find the truth and meaning underlying things. Every encounter and every piece of knowledge gained gets sifted through the INFP's value system, and is evaluated to see if it has any potential to help the INFP define or refine their own path in life. The goal at the end of the path is always the same - the INFP is driven to help people and make the world a better place.

Generally thoughtful and considerate, INFPs are good listeners and put people at ease. Although they may be reserved in expressing emotion, they have a very deep well of caring and are genuinely interested in understanding people. This sincerity is sensed by others, making the INFP a valued friend and confidante. An INFP can be quite warm with people he or she knows well.

INFPs do not like conflict, and go to great lengths to avoid it. If they must face it, they will always approach it from the perspective of their feelings. In conflict situations, INFPs place little importance on who is right and who is wrong. They focus on the way that the conflict makes them feel, and indeed don't really care whether or not they're right. They don't want to feel badly. This trait sometimes makes them appear irrational and illogical in conflict situations. On the other hand, INFPs make very good mediators, and are typically good at solving other people's conflicts, because they intuitively understand people's perspectives and feelings, and genuinely want to help them.

INFPs are flexible and laid-back, until one of their values is violated. In the face of their value system being threatened, INFPs can become aggressive defenders, fighting passionately for their cause. When an INFP has adopted a project or job which they're interested in, it usually becomes a "cause" for them. Although they are not detail-oriented individuals, they will cover every possible detail with determination and vigor when working for their "cause".

When it comes to the mundane details of life maintenance, INFPs are typically completely unaware of such things. They might go for long periods without noticing a stain on the carpet, but carefully and meticulously brush a speck of dust off of their project booklet.

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

HOW I PARTICIPATE IN COUCHSURFING

I'd like to participate in a Collective to better the CS2 project! Until then, I use the site to expand my knowledge of the world and to offer advice to anyone who needs it.

Interests

Family, Friends, Food, Music, Traveling, Camping, Hiking, Exploring, Learning, Reading, Sleeping.

  • books
  • dining
  • reading
  • traveling
  • music
  • hiking
  • camping
  • tourism

Music, Movies, and Books

Movies: D2: The Mighty Ducks, I Heart Huckabees, Lost in Translation, American Beauty, Amelie, Memento, Billy Madison, Ace Ventura Pet Detective, Flight of the Navigator, Grandma's Boy, Wet Hot American Summer

TV: Six Feet Under

Music: Yusuf Islam (Cat Stevens)

Books: The Giver, Brave New World, 1984, The Four Agreements, Still Life with Woodpecker, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Le Petit Prince, The BFG

Countries I’ve Visited

Australia, Canada, Dominican Republic, England, France, Germany, Italy, Mexico, Monaco, Netherlands, Netherlands Antilles, New Zealand, Saint Martin (French part), Sint Maarten (Dutch part), Spain, United Kingdom, United States, Vatican City State

Countries I’ve Lived In

France, United States

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