CURRENT MISSION

Understand people better and interact with LOVE, only love (not there yet. It is my bigest training) , be surprised, change my ideas, change the world, show surfers my "zero (almost) waste" way of living!

ABOUT ME

Hello all! I'm a single mom living with my boy, Mathys. Summer 2024, he turns 11 years old. I always have an au pair girl or guy living at home with us. I still have room for a CS on the living room couch most of the year. Two people can fit on it. I travel once or twice a year with my son. Don't wory, couch surfing hosts: he sleeps very well at night in general :-) Mathys is a very lively and social little guy who was raised into couch surfing. He is dancing, signing and being a clown very easily.

We are vegan. Not extremist, though. We accept meat lovers without problems. I have more problems if you bring tons of garbage (like take away styrofoam everyday) in my house. If I am surfing at your place, I will always ask: do you have a compost bin? A recycling bin?... but if you don't, I will have to adapt. I hope when you visit us you will adapt well to our trash system as it is important to me.

As a tourist surfing at your place, I intend to ask you your rough schedule to know if you have no time for us or if we could plan on doing things together in the house or out. I am very independant to discover a place but the contact with locals is totaly a PLUS and on top, I am a very social creature who like to learn and share. I do not expect to be driven around but spending the time of one meal together at least would be very nice. No time? I understand and respect that too :-)

As a host, wich is what I do the most, I don't accept surfers for LESS than 4 nights. The maximum is usually 7 days. It is a little flexible but you have to be very convincing ;-)

I accept NEW profiles without references but make an effort to describe yourself in a way the hosts can make an idea about WHO is requesting to stay at their place. And the most important for me is the PERSONNAL message you will write. If no reference to you reading my profile or WHY do you want to surf at MY place is made... I know we all look for a cheap (!) place to stay but I am not a hotel, you know. You will be expected to interact with us and spend time otherwise, I don't see why I should bother...

You can see above what job I do and you can conclude that I am much into arts and culture. I also love to walk walk walk. I bike a lot. I love the most simple experience in a tent to the expensive hotel bufet experience in Pattaya on the day it is not so expensive. One thing I dislike doing: doing nothing. I love to chat, cook, eat, go for a coffee or glass of wine, take pictures, help you on a project, be your guide in Montreal if I have the time, visit with you, bring you to a friend party! I just don't go into bars much for Mathys can not go there with us.

As interactions really depend of who is coming to my house with what commun interests and what behaviour, I can't describe how I will be towards you ;-) When I surf, I am more of a listener and I try to fit in. When I host, I am very direct on how I appreciate things in my own appartment. In one case or the other, I believe that true communication, sometimes inconfortable, is the key to not feeling frustrated or rejected or juged or unwelcome or disliked or disrespected. I tend not to avoid to speak the truth of my heart, in a friendly way, WHEN I feel that the person in front of me could take it as a gift insted of an agression. Anyways, what I say always reflect ONLY my personal vision. It talks to you or it does not.

All I can say is I LOVE receiving people when they seam thankfull, respectfull of my demands and interested in sharing and helping out. Some time I'll have much time for you. Some times, I'm almost not there... But remember the au pair might be there with you all day. Mathys goes to day care. School, almost!

PS find my name in my profile... I always like to see that CS have read a few references when they send a request :-P

PHILOSOPHY

Why do it simple when it can be more complicated (more to discover, more surprising, unforgettable, more to learn, fun fun fun)??!

I expect great things from the others and I crave for VERY FLUID COMMUNICATION with and from everyone but it is not ofthen the case so sometimes -many times- I am very disappointed by others and I think I dedicate my life to understand that other on witch I rely so much... in order to stop ever being disappointed anymore, one day and become wise...

Some one said (can't remember who) Happyness will not come when everything is perfect but when you will have accepted the imperfections of everything...
I say YES
but... you can try making it less imperfect...

and however, to relate it to CS, I'd say I host a lot BECAUSE I accept that things
could be imperfect and go wrong. I learned a lot from imperfect experiences :-)

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

HOW I PARTICIPATE IN COUCHSURFING

I intend to participate as much as possible but I have more and more expectations towards surfers. I am less eager to accept all and everyone. Not for lack of time. I can always make time for surfers. Not for needs of privacy. I do not need such thing. I have more rules to make it more fun for me. Yep: sometimes hosting was all work and no fun. So I still receive surfers cause I love conversations at almost all times! Loll. I am quebecoise but that is a very french touch I have: loving controversy, talkative suppers, asking you lots of questions, discovering your specific way of dealing with your life or your traveling philosophy... Everything is more fun with someone rather than alone. But especialy, I think it is amazing the random conversations you can have with a surfer, turning deep and changing something unexpected within you, in the end.

COUCHSURFING EXPERIENCE

Just amazing! I have surfed first and however the dificulties, I'm now trying to host as much as possible to give back the generosity I received. Despite some less good experiences, I have had soooo many incredible host and surfers! I some times think I receive more from surfers than I give them... See my references/comments on people for more details about what we do when together, couch surfers and I...

Interests

THEATRE, ARTS (plays, dance shows, museums, doing arts and theater)
Social and charitative activities (I am volunteering with RESULTS Canada)
OUTDOOR SMOOTH ACTIVITIES (love walking, jogging, hiking softly, yoga, pilates)
NEWS, PHILOSOPHY, ENVIRONMENT, LEARNING. I am also a vegan who likes to talk about animal ethics and climate changes, pollution, reducing wastes and packaging, live a simplier life. I am not a vegan extremist, don't worry.

• animals
• wildlife
• arts
• culture
• theater
• concerts
• dancing
• environment
• ethics
• dining
• breakfast
• wine
• vegan
• exercise
• yoga
• pilates
• walking
• partying
• drinking
• crafts
• politics
• traveling
• knitting
• painting
• drawing
• music
• jazz
• opera
• outdoor activities
• hiking
• history
• tourism
• volunteering
• mountains
• zero waste

Music, Movies, and Books

Pfff too many! On request..

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

- diving for the first time in Grand Cenote, Tulum, Mexico...
- private picture safari in a biological animal center, Los Lianos, Venezuela
- go dancing in Igloo fest, Montreal, with a sufer protecting my 6 months prengnancy belly from the crazy crowd
- horse ridding the hills between San Cristobal and San Juan de Chamula, Mexico
- treck in the red rocks of Sedona, Arizona, USA
- dancing sevillana with knowing how to with local people, being the only foreigner of the first Spain feria de Abril in Matalascanas, Spain.
- horse ridding in Hyde Park, London, England
- canoing in the sea with wild dolphins in Madeleine Islands, Canada
- listening to a drunk thaï guide signing the Beatles with his guitare, in front of an outdoor fire at night, in the mountains, near Chang Maï, Thaïland
- visit an orphenage in Luang Prabang, Laos and be given the opportunity to give a drawing and painting lesson, a sewing workshop and a shadow puppets workshop
- Assist a private real Azteca dance and try a HOT temazcal experience with a real hippy crowd and real chaman, the next day! Palenque, Mexico
- Try Absynthe (the green mythic alcool of the mytical poets of Paris) in Caveau de la Huchette during a small Jazz concert, Paris, France
-Getting married in Burkina Faso!
- Assisting an outdoor Opera reheursal in a super small and gorgeous village surronded by sunflower fields: San Geminiano, Italy
soooo much more...

Teach, Learn, Share

TEACH:
I'd be happy to teach basic sewing, basic drawing, French, basic English or trash reduction. Love to share visions of life, experiences and maybe change my ideas because of you?

Because I will always have so much to LEARN:
- would love to learn a new laguage
- would love to learn to use a computer better and PHOTOSHOP!!
- would love to learn the History of your country
- would love to learn traditional waving and fabric dying
- would love to learn to knit

SHARE:
How funny that people ONLY have awsome things to share on CS... How not representative of the real experiences...

What I Can Share with Hosts

I tend to offer a meal on one of your days with me. Be a surfer or a host.

As A HOST MYSELF, I could offer the first breakfast if you arrived late the previous night. But no more: you must take care of your own meals. I hate to make that precision. I have had a few bad experiences...

As a HOST: I can offer bedding (sheet, blanket, pillow) and a towel for the showers.
As a surfer, I usually don't have a sleeping bag or a towel unless I travel along a beach or plan on being around a swimming pool a lot.

As a HOST: There is no TV here. I do not have a fix phone and I do not let Csurfers use my computer. Again... I have had bad experiences... I DO offer the code to the Free Internet acces. But My Internet is not unlimited. Don't download without asking.
As a SURFER: I will not spend all my time going out without you if you show interest in spending time with me! I don't want to disturb your routine neither. What ever suits you but I definitely don't spend hours on my phone/computer not talking to you... unless you are busy.

As a HOST MYSELF: I am likely to refuse to host you if you don't stay at least 4 days. Max is 8.

The reason is I doubt I will have the time to enjoy your stay if you come 1-3 days. You will have lots to do in little time so you may not want to spend one of your precious evenings talking to me and it is not guaranty I can go somewhere with you and bring my young son with us in evenings... even during the day, some places are simply no good for toodlers...

I will help you very much with directions. I have a good sens of orientation and I like to share ideas of what you could do in my city. I can draw maps, talk about the culture here, the expressions, what to pay attention to. I am very helpfull with any question you have (or I want to be helpful to be more precise) and you will be able to communicate with me anytime during the day (if I am at work or anywhere out of the house) by cellphone or facebook messages MESSENGER...

Countries I’ve Visited

Brazil, Burkina Faso, Cuba, Côte d'Ivoire, Dominican Republic, Germany, Italy, Laos, Mexico, Morocco, Netherlands, Spain, Thailand, Tunisia, United States, Venezuela

Countries I’ve Lived In

Belgium, Canada, France, Mexico, United Kingdom

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