Ms. Metaphor | A Realistic Romanticist
Moccaism • Moccaist

I won’t answer any request without even reading the part of home description any more.
I won’t answer any useless message about making friends.This is Couchsurfing, not Tinder.
I won’t reply to anything which couldn’t show your thinking about why you choose me.
I am not feeing sorry because if you ever don’t spare your time to read your host’s profile or home description, you are actually wasting my time to read your request.

26/08/2019 I UPDATE FINALLY!
🖤I haven’t updated my profile since I completed it two years ago. But now I have a pretty dorm which I am glad to host young surfers( sorry it’s a student dorm that only young students could enter without causing troubles), I would like to update more information about me.

🖤I believe in Aura.
I won’t say I am always charming and inspiring which people expected me to be half of the time.
Cuz in the other half,
“Yo I am just a sucker.”
So whether we will have a good time is not decided by a perfect profile or good references. It’s determined by the time we shared with each other.
The way you treat me is how I treat you.
“People deserve it.”

🖤I am very picky now.
Sorry I am not the young surfer who is eager to hear any stories.
I choose the people i meet and I want to make the time not wasted.
So I apologize here if I didn’t reply to every message and request.But my time is limited.
For the ones who are really lovely and sorry we could not meet, “ you will have many interesting people ahead!”

🖤Anti-Profile-Define-Personality
Yes I know I had a cool profile(very long for sure) which reminds me how eager I was in Couchsurfing and had really cool memories.
However, I could not agree to define a person through a profile cuz we are complicated humans.

🖤ENTP
I know it’s not accurate and it changes as time goes.
While right now I am MoccaBTI.
Someone special gave me this nice name.Love it!

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MY PREFERENCES
👉🏻One to one meeting or conversations.
I had an experience recently which confirmed that I am not interested in group tours at all. To make both of us having a cool experience, and make the most of our time, I will host one guy only at one time.

👉🏻Don’t focus on your phone all the time.
I hate the people who is exploring themselves online instead of having a talk with friends just sitting close.If you are focused on your phone more than talking with me,sorry you are not my piece of cake.

👉🏻Use English when there is another person who doesn’t understand your native language.
I have to put this here cuz this is very rude I think.Ignoring another person’s feeling and just use your mother tongue cuz it’s easier for you and it’s very offensive.

👉🏻Be grateful.
No matter the surfer or the host should be grateful for what they do for each other. I won’t ask for any gift and you don’t need to feel embarrassed if you don’t bring anything for me. I will appreciate a hug after two years we meet again somewhere in the world—— we still feel so happy that we spend some time together and this is not because of manners. I think I am a very polite person who won’t say rude words even if I feel very comfortable, but that doesn’t mean my feelings could be ignored. So fuck off your ass, disappearing from my world cuz you don’t deserve staying:D
If my surfer brings me something, I will really appreciate it and that’s what I am used to doing. I am not your free accommodation and a free guide!!!Keep this sentence in mind: Don’t only receive, but give!
If you are not interested in sharing, you don’t understand Couchsurfing at all. Trust, sharing, respect always matter here.

⚫️A crazy lover about freedom and justice,
travelling and reading,
humans and animals,
nature and music,
beauty and simplicity.

⚫️A young deep soul which is changeable,sometimes calm and rational, sometimes wild and crazy.

⚫️A strong feminist and naturalist caring about human beings as well as animals.
Believe in human nature is good.

⚫️Always ready for the challenges and changes, Always ready for the adventures of nature and human, Always ready for the happiness of meeting and sorrow of departure,
Always ready for the gratitude to give and receive love,
Always ready to hug, to kiss, to smile, to sing, to dance, to shout, to cry, to beat, to shine!

⚫️I've been reading books of old
Since I was a kid
I got fun in the imaginative world of dream
Until now I am 20
Finally building my own dream
I love many different books
The legends and the myths
The magic world which exists in my heart
The moon and its eclipse
The wax and wane
The prosperity and decline of dynasty
The poem and melody
The fiction and drama

⚫️I read quite a lot, and after the period of childhood of reading hundreds books ,I am keeping reading over 30 books a year now.
I read not because of the advantages what it could bring, just I get fun.
So I change the topics or types I am interested in during different times.
I am not Mocca any more,I am Jane,I am Peter Pan,I am Harrry Potter, I am anyone who I am dreaming to be.

⚫️I've been travelling to some cities or countries Since I was a kid I travelled a lot in China
The longest time is three months
Until now I am 20 I have been to over 10 countries
I am not paying attention to the sum of places I have been to or proud of what I have done.
I am trying to find myself during the trip.

⚫️I read books and watched movies which took me four months before travelling.
When arriving in Rome,I knew everything and detail. That’s the magic of reading.
In front of the millions of years And amazingly huge magnificent architecture, I am so small and the life is so short.
Although I am so insignificant, I smile or laugh like this is my world.

⚫️I have done voluntary job at my spare time for over 12 years.
I am still struggling to find my favorite area I am good at and I love.
I don’t know where I am going.
But I have already been on the path.

⚫️Life is not the poem you are dreaming.
When I was in Sri Lanka for six weeks, I kept asking myself.
Do they really need me? What could I give them? Why am I am here, to find myself or to trully help them?
I can’t make the huge change like a great man.
The social common rules are so strong so what I could do is keeping myself still.
I cried and laughed in Sri Lanka. I was touched by their pure smiles. I was angry at their doing nothing. I was confused with whether what I am doing is what they want or what they need.
Until one day my student told me How grateful they met me How awesome the memories were How eager they are wishing to see me again …….
I know every effort and hard moment are worthwhile.

⚫️I have fought in the area of anti-Japanese Second World War old soldiers voluntary job.
I am painful and could not support myself to go farther. You see, I am the common people who is not always positive or powerful.
I am still trying. To help animals To help disabled people To help the homeless kids ………….

⚫️Nothing is easy.
After hours of climbing the mountain to bear the difficulty and hard times you wanted to give up
You see the unbelievable views over the whole mountain.
To feel the pains of others and set yourself in the same shoes is the real help to whom is in need. It’s not easy to always inspire or empower others. I am trying to do better and get stronger.

⚫️I AM THE STAR ⭐️
IN MY OWN PLANET 🌎
you are welcome to pay a visit
always welcome to Mocca’s world
a paradise full of dream and love
romance and fantasy

⚫️The Best Dog Chaser.
I write this because I just now got the first negative reference part because of dogs. I am not interested in dogs more than humans or I mean I still show respect for my friends but if I run away for a dog,that is just because I really am eager to touch them or talk to them.This has nothing with the politeness. But I will pay attention to my actions not to make others feel they are not as important as dogs.
If you are crazy about animals, congratulations!You are gonna find any sweetie in your city!

Here is a code which you could put in the beginning:ThreeFatty, and I will know you read my profile.It absolutely adds the possibility of hosting you.

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

I Was Born Without National Borders.
This is Why I am Here.

We Connect the World and Try to Make Changes.
This is Why We are Here Together.

I want to experience the local culture and meet more friends sharing our stories and getting wonderful time to create happy memories.
I like culture diversity.
I was born without flags or borders.I like meeting different people.
I only care about who you are not your skin or nationality or religion.
I am pretty open-minded and I show respect for everyone and their choices of life. We decide who we are and where we will go. The people we meet also have influence on us so this also is why I love couchsurfing.

Interests

So many interests! Reading, movies, dramas, music, surfing, travelling, bakery, pets, voluntary work, host,speech, flower…Yep.I am energetic and young.

I would like to learn sth new!Soooooo wanna get some refresh and empowerment from you!

I am a mother of two sons sometimes and sometimes I just divorced with my rich ex.Sometimes I speak millions words a night and sometimes I have no interest at all and just past the roses which were received just now to the couple passing by.

Don't ask me my interest. Let's do some interesting things!

• poetry
• dancing
• painting
• rock music
• techno
• mountaining

Music, Movies, and Books

Love music, movies , books a lot!!!

I refuse to introduce here!

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

Have you ever walked at 3AM in Paris？
Have you ever drunk, sung and danced in the empty street laughing and shouting in Barcelona?
Have you ever rushed into a party by accident knowing nobody there in Brugge?
I knew nobody five hours ago. However, when I had to leave, everybody hugged me and kisses me like we have known each other for ten years.
Have you climbed a ladder into the roof and sat there hearing the ocean singing and waiting for the sunrise in Sri Lanka?
Have you kissed the strangers no matter where they are from and what they are doing?

Teach, Learn, Share

I learnt violin in my childhood, but I find I love pianos now.
I painted for five years but after an accident,I stopped it, but i wish I could be strong enough to pick it up again.
I became a reporter when I was 12 years old after I kept submitting articles and I published some papers.I did that for one year.
I am independent economically since I was 18. I have my part time job as a teacher to teach Chinese English or foreigners Mandarin. I also have some other work to earn money. I wish add one word there someday, mentally.
I am good at hosting or speeching.
I am super energetic person.
I have so many complicated mixed personalities.
I like photography, bicycling, singing, movies, history, literature, hiking, running, playing drums.
I joined school football team for one year.
I learnt Chinese Ancient Dancing for two years.
I won the college speech competition and host competition.
I played Wei Qi(the most difficult chess in China）and I got the certificate which is the best a nonprofessional player could get.
I love bakery. ……
Tell me what you are interested in and what you want to learn or share.

What I Can Share with Hosts

◼️I want all of you know me
through your own eyes
understand me by your own heart.
To know a person is not easy.
So I am unwilling to tell what I have achieved
because that’s my past.

◼️I am open not only my door
but also my soul
To listen to your stories and life
As well as mine
Never judge
and always respect

◼️I am ready to share the laughter and tear
Share what you want to know about me
I will not hide
as I also want to explore myself
I will be totally honest
to you and my heart

Countries I’ve Visited

Austria, Belgium, Bosnia and Herzegovina, China, Czech Republic, England, France, Germany, Hungary, India, Italy, Luxembourg, Macedonia, Malaysia, Monaco, Montenegro, Netherlands, Russian Federation, Serbia, Slovakia, Spain, Sri Lanka, Vatican City State

Countries I’ve Lived In

China, Czech Republic, England, France, Sri Lanka