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Overview

  • 1 reference
  • Fluent in English; learning Spanish
  • 35, Male
  • Member since 2010
  • Student/Traveller
  • Enrolled at UNC-Chapel Hill
  • From Jacksonville, FL, USA
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About Me

ABOUT ME

When I was young, I thought I would outgrow dirty jokes and toilet humor. Thank goodness I was wrong.

PHILOSOPHY

I heard this poem recited from memory Summer 2009, and it's stuck with me ever since. I agree with most things it says, and it seems to fit my personality pretty well:

Desiderata
Go placidly amid the noise and the haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

COUCHSURFING EXPERIENCE

None at the moment, but I hope to change that very soon.

Interests

  • exercise
  • business

Music, Movies, and Books

Movie: The Green Mile (I can't say if this is actually my favorite, but it recently made me cry for the first time in six years. I was relieved to be reminded that I can still shed tears).
Music: I'm constantly trying to expand my musical repertoire. I am forever indebted to anyone who tries to help. Michael Jackson (RIP) will always be a favorite, but my knowledge runs much deeper than The King of Pop.
Books: Stephen King is great, from time to time. However, I'd have to say The Magician's Nephew is my all time favorite (my mother read it to me at age six. It set the foundation for my love of fiction).

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