CURRENT MISSION

I can see many friends from various regions and other countries, so we can share each other when we need. Friends here means a friend who was seriously in need of help, not people who take advantage of the good person for the purposes of crime

ABOUT ME

Bad Experience With my guest
(I write here because I can write a complete chronology events of my bad experience)

8/06/2011:
you send couchrequest to me, and i accepeted

9/06/2011:
07.00 - 09.00:
u text me, u hv arrived at the terminal arjosari (though I've said, let me know if you've arrived in Lawang, which is near the city of Malang so that i can pick up u on time). As u know, the distance from my home to the terminal arjosari approximately 25 kms and takes 45 minutes to 1 hour, so I came late to pick you up bcz ur late text, you are very angry because that, but I tried to be patient and understand your attitude. During the trip you did not say anything. I invite you both stopped at a traditional restaurant to enjoy breakfast because I know you're hungry, I treat you right? after breakfast you start talking to me, I am feeling really happy at that time because you do not ignore me anymore
After breakfast we continue the journey to my home, after arriving at my home, in honor of my guests, I always offered two choices to stay at my place, including you
1. in the main house or
2. in my other house (near the main house, empty, I have to offer if you want more privacy)
Finally you choose to live in the main house with my family). Actually my wife was a bit mind because you are a smoker, but I said to my wife, that you will not smoke in the room (I also say that to you). But the fact you still smoke indoors. I admonished you not to smoke indoors, but you are angry
(anyway at breakfast I told you that I once had a heart attack so I am very susceptible to cigarette smoke, I hope you remember?)

09:00:
I have plans with my family for recreation in the city park, I offer to you, join or stay home? then I recommend resting at home rather than come with me, but you chose to come with us,
When I arrived at the city park in. I invite you join with us not to get bored waiting for us, you do not want, you want to walk around the city.

13:00
I told you to be ready at 14:00 in front, the city park
13:30
I told you again that my small child (age 6) still want to try other games, so we finished playing at 15.00, and what you do, you are angry (I know you are tired, but why do you not follow my advice to rest at home?) Because you are angry we are in a hurry to meet you, do you know how disappointed my small child?
. While your attitude like that so I still respect you, I give you and your girlfriend food for lunch.

16:00: arrive at home

10/06/2011:

12.00:
I invite you and your girlfriend to walk to the beach (90 kms) from Malang, using my Jeep TAFT GT, to commute in need cost RP. 200 000, is it wrong if I ask for donations Rp 100,000 to you? Whether a host should not be like that? Should I pay for everything?

20:30:

We got home, I was exhausted, my wife was angry because I was too late to take medication for my heart

22:30:
after cleaning the jeep and a shower, sleep

24.00:
You woke me up to ask for transfer to Mount Bromo,
I ask that you please not tonight, because I was tired and afraid of my heart condition (according to the doctor, I have enough rest) but you can not understand, you are so angry when I say "not tonight", you say I like the broken promise ( how could you say so) I suppose a healthy condition, although not sleep all night, you are definitely among my night. That night I really lost patience and angry, I say to you, like it better if you use a travel agency to Bromo, but your girlfriend (Hilde) said not having to pay, the better to bromo tomorrow night with me for free. Finally, although disappointed I promise the next day and take you to the bromo

11/06/2011:

10.00:
I take you downtown to streets

16:00:
I pick up u and back home with me

24.00:
As my promise yesterday, I woke you to get ready to leave to Bromo, I say please discordant Rp.200.000 fuel to go to the bromo (Malang - Bromo 85 km, the condition of the ramp, if you save a jeep in need of approximately Rp. 300,000 for gasoline), you are immediately rejected and angry. You say has contributed 100,000 to me when we went to the beach. Sofie ... how much money the value of 100,000 in Indonesia?,How the money rp. 100,000 could be enough to two places in the opposite direction? I am shocked and deeply offended when you say I'm cheating on you, asking for money Rp.200.000 premises. I want to ask you, Could you to Bromo with RP. 200,000 money using private cars. I am angry and offended if you say so, because my patience runs out (the accumulation of disappointment), I ask you to get out of my house that night although I was angry. I still offered to you for my transfer to the hotel, but you do not want you to even ask for my inter-terminal train (remember?). I say better in hotels than in the terminal, what did I do called the drive?
After a while I just understand that you want to take advantage of me, you want to take advantage of the host to be able to travel for FREE.

But I thank you for giving me a very valuable lesson in my life, especially in selecting guests / friends. I also apologize for the time being have not been able to host, because it is still traumatized.

THANK YOU

Sidharta and Family

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

HOW I PARTICIPATE IN COUCHSURFING

I can help provide free lodging, if not coincide with my working hours, I gladly will take you to get around the city while tasting culinary dish of MLG

COUCHSURFING EXPERIENCE

hosted for my friend who came from Egypt and Germany in the membership hospitalityclub.

Interests

• dining
• breakfast
• traveling
• cars
• medicine
• beaches