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Overview
About Me
**PROFILE SUMMARY**
After completed my higher education in Germany where I studied Business Communication at HTW Berlin, I moved to Denpasar from Jakarta and has called Bali home for all of my adult life.
1. OPTIMIST AND GOING ON MY OWN PACE
An outgoing, fun to talk with, and do things at my own pace. Easy going and hardly get depressed for thinking too much about something. Even when I am troubled by someone or things won’t turn out as they planned, I would often say just “no, it's fine” or "no worries".
Often flatter people and taken as goofing around. I can make sound decisions and have graciousness to work straight forward to accomplish goal, once I have decide it. Such positive attitude and capacious mind stand out in a group and often relied. I value my own world, have flexible ways of thinking and strictly tied to common sense of the society
2. SOMETIMES OVERREACTING
I am, however, sometimes self-approving and overreacting. “Doing things at own pace” becomes a negative point. It possibly leads to conflictions or arouses people’s antipathy and isolated.
3. TENDER-HEARTED, BUT QUICK TO SWITCH THE MOOD**
I am tender-hearted, sympathetic and kind, but quickly change my moods and behaviors. Because of this, people are often doubt of my feeling. Others possibly are not sure whether I am kind or not. I am acting totally unconsciously, I am not pretending to be “kind” and feeling true sympathy at the moment. However, because I can switch moods quickly and hardly linger my feeling, I look as though I am pretending
4. FLUENT COMMUNICATOR
In matters of love, my newsy talk, curiosity and optimistic personality attract people.
A fluent communicator and good at creating fun atmosphere, becoming popular among people. My frank personality makes me possible to get along with all kinds of people, but I don’t make effort to get along with someone I once thought I don’t like.
Honest to my own feeling and often choose not to work hard and just enjoy. I think flexibly, and once I decided to have close relation with you, you can develop relationship fast.
5. SENSIBLE TO ATMOSPHERE BUT SOMETIMES LACK SHARPNESS
I clearly express my opinions and feelings, but also good at sensing the atmosphere. If I can understand each other with partners, I can enjoy time together.
However, I sometimes lack sharpness, even though I can read between lines. In such situation, I can’t express my true intention with a roundabout way.
Outgoing, optimistic and doing things in own pace are wonderful personalities, if you once understand me. I am often said “difficult to get along”, but I am not.
**HOW TO COPE WITH ME**
1. DON'T WORRY ABOUT MY HARSH WORDS**
I sometimes speak arrogantly against others. For example, I say “It doesn’t suit you” when I see your new hairstyle. Of course, you may feel sad or upset if I say something like that. But I would ask you “Why are you angry?”. I don’t mean to hurt you at all. However, I don’t think anything else except for what is in front of me. On the other words, when I say your new hairstyle doesn’t suit you, I am just unsatisfied with it, not you. So, I may like your old or different styles.
In general, people remember negative things. That’s why people think I am arrogant or I have a bad personality. But I also praise you very much. I am very honest in any situations, so this means that I am a trustful guy. Don’t worry too much about what my way.
2. ENJOY MY SHORT NOTICE HANG OUT
I don’t think ahead, and take action suddenly. If you want your plan to be on track, I am the most annoying people. However, I have ability to find nice shops and restaurants not listed in a guidebook. So, you may discover something new if you hang out with me. It is a good idea to go out with me sometimes.
3. BE FLEXIBLE
I go my own way and don’t think others much, so just have a casual relationship with me. As I might be changing my plan, just feel at ease. If you have too casual attitude, I would be upset. But don’t worry, even if I am, I will soon forget. If you are quite sensitive, try to have a very casual relationship with me. You may have a good one.
4. DON'T BE PUSHY
I don’t like being pushy, so you shouldn’t control me. If you do, I will defy you. I cannot stand it at all as I don’t like be controlled, and like freedom. Even though my facial expressions are the same as usual, I cannot accept what you say. I become reliable when I trust you. When you say “It is quite fun to do like this”, I would be happy to follow you.
Why I’m on Couchsurfing
In the past around 2011 or 2012, my close friend told me about the excitement of couch surfing. How people meet each others from all around the world, become host for each others and so on. I thought, I have no clue who these people are, and I thought it was a dumb idea.
Years later AirBnB became popular and I started to work for payment getaways company which related to AirBnB and so on. Usually when I travel around the world, I'd book a hotel room, then I started using AirBnB. Now I am more open mind.
In my age now(25 years) to have hangout friends isn't as easy as when I was high school. I didn't have to find hangout friends in high school, because the school or univ. provide them to me. But now, I have few close friends and other than that, I have some colleagues and that's all. Now I have to actively find out friends to hang out with.
So, here I am, looking for friends. to hangout with. to spend weekend with going to the beach, online gaming, watching movie, do some adventure sports, attend some events and so on.
Interests
- rabbits
- farmers' market
- yoga
- clubbing
- camping
- adventure races
- mountaineering
- scuba diving
- swimming
- adventure travel
- mountains
- mountain biking
- adventure
- adventures
- lgbt
- farming
- mountain climbing
- wild camping
- mountain bike
- bali
- gayfriendly
- adventure sports
- wall climbing
- persian
- gay friendly
- persian food
- lgbtq
- gays
Music, Movies, and Books
*Food*
Indonesian, Sushi, Dimsum, Kurdish, Fast food, Vegetarian, Seafood, Greek
*Travel*
Individual, Wellness, Adventure, Mountains
*Interests*
Geo-politic, Espionage, Counter-Intelligence, Literature, Gaming, Politics, Computers, Film & Video, Cooking, Music, Nature, Dance, Space, Foreign Affairs, International Relation
*Sports*
Ba Gua Zhang, Ice Skating, Race Walking, Biking, Jogging, Krav Maga, Hiking, Swimming, Football, Badminton, Volleyball, Baseball, Yoga, Climbing, Martial Arts, Tennis, Rowing, Scuba diving
*Going out*
Movies, Theater, Exhibition, Private Parties, Sports, Other, Arts
*Music*
Alternative, Dance & Electronic, Jazz & Blues, Classical, RnB & Soul, Rock, Folk, House & Techno, Musical, World music
Teach, Learn, Share
I can teach:
**How to cook Indonesian's meals
**Buddhism novice male monastic level
**Wall climbing
**Indonesian (language)
**German A1 - C2 level (language)
**Modelling (Act like model, model scouting, model 101)
**Tourism management (Tour planning, guiding 101, fare calculation, abacus ticketing)
**Business Communication
**Disaster management
**Blood type personality(How to recognize someone's blood from the behavior and morphology)
**Psychology
**Real Estate Course
I want to learn:
**French (language)
**Farsi (language)
**Hebrew (language)
**Archery
**Archery while riding a horse
**Jainism (religion)
**How to bake breads and cake
**How to create perfume
**How to sing with counter tenor voice
**Qabalah (religion)
**Zoroastrian (religion)
Countries I’ve Visited
Belgium, France, Germany, Hong Kong, India, Iran, Japan, Malaysia, Singapore, Switzerland, Thailand, Viet Nam
Countries I’ve Lived In
Germany, Indonesia, Singapore, Switzerland