Bonjour!
Of course I'M NOT 22!
Are you kidding? I'm old ...much too old ...VERY old.

You can also contact me via my website at:
https://rodneyrecor.com
(Please right click the links in my profile to choose browsing in a separate window)
I suggest that you visit my website to find out much more than I'm sure you care to know about me.

I am hosting Pizza Nite in Carrboro again if you are interested.
https://www.couchsurfing.com/events/pizza-nite-in-carrboro-carrboro-2024-06-22
https://rodneyrecor.com/pizzanite
Come to PIZZA NITE in CARRBORO!
Every Friday at 7pm (6 in winter)
https://rodneyrecor.com/pizzanite/

Right Now: I AM NOT HOSTING in PARIS ~
I AM HOSTING IN CARRBORO, NORTH CAROLINA.

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I am a sometimes-retired american filmmaker of french and slovenian ancestry.
[Right-click here for the listing of my paternal line: https://rodneyrecor.com/ancestry/lesRecors.html].

I enjoy traveling to France and to all of the warm, sunny places that I love. I live in Paris for three months every summer and I am a CS host there whenever possible. You are welcome to contact me any time.

I have Surfed and Hosted many, many times and made good friends around the world. When I'm in the States, I often stay in Chapel Hill, North Carolina, or travel to other places, while always looking forward to my return to France. I'm always a Host whenever and wherever I have my own place.

I stay in France as much as possible, but not having a good excuse for a permanent visa, I must submit to our insensitive politicians' inhumane laws that push us around by force every three months. (I detest politicians.)

I love to be in Paris in the summer, and it has become my new "home town". My dream is to settle down forever in a small french or italian village with the woman of my dreams and establish a small auberge where we shall have a café, a place to always welcome traveling Couchsurfers, and a lovely garden where we will grow tomatoes, herbs, and flowers.

I am the creator of the Paris Picnic du Jour.
https://www.couchsurfing.com/groups/le-paris-picnic-du-jour
(right-click to browse in a separate tab)

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COUCH REQUEST?
I love to host CouchSurfers. I've done it hundreds of times now.
I do, however, have 3 demands.

1) If you don't read this profile first, you will not know what I look for in a Couch Request that inspires me to say. "Yes", and I will respectfully decline yours.

"The Triangle" in North Carolina (Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill) is not a CouchSurfing location. Don't send me a Couch Request if you are visiting Raleigh - it's too far from here. Send me a Couch Request only if you want to CouchSurf in and around Carrboro or Chapel Hill.

2) Intelligent people like myself and especially those of us who know someone who died of it, know damn well Covid is not a hoax. I will not kiss the ass of any trump fascist, religious idiot, or other uneducated moron who is not fully vaccinated. In your Couch Request I expect you to include the date(s) of your vaccination, and If I host you, on your arrival at my place I will require your vaccination card to prove it.

3) I do not tolerate freeloaders. I've paid my donation and I will host only those surfers "Payment Verified". Not one damn bit do I like the new greedy corporate CouchSurfing that demands money. But that's the way CS is these days, so put your money in the pot with all those of us who do.
(GuestPlaces is free and will always remain that way.)

For me to accept your Couch Request, you must read at least some of my profile, and comment on something in it. I suggest that you mention something I "am not". If you are a beginner Couchsurfer, I do not require that you have friends or previous references (we all started the same way), but a complete, full, well-defined CS profile that lets me know who you are, is absolutely required and will work well in your favor.

I usually do not accept Requests to host vegetarians and vegans. I enjoy cooking with and for my guests and I am not a vegetarian. It would be inaccurate to say that you will not be welcome, but very simply, my home kitchen environment may be what you think of as 'contaminated' and I don't patronize guests who expect me to adjust to any sort of special spiritual or moral hogwash.

I rarely host boyfriends/girlfriends. I support strong and brave women independent from men that retard her progress, require her compromise, and inhibit her personal growth. I cringe at the sight of a boyfriend's dismal attempt to display a 'kewl' plumage of sexuality, confidence, leadership and reliability rarely found in men who ...

I prefer that your Couch Request use the "Send Request" Button (unless the website function is not working). A plain message asking me to host you is OK only when I am not in France. Your Couch Request must be well-written and it must let me know what you are up to. I support the philosophy that CS is primarily a way to find a place to stay, (I'm not all bound up by that "CS is a spiritual blah... blah... blah" concept) but I will be looking for your CS spirit. I accept emergency requests when my place is available. In any situation however, I will want to read your completed CS profile. Two of you traveling together MUST BOTH have a CS profile.

You (or both of you if two people) MUST have a photo of YOURSELF, showing your face, on your profile(s) to receive a "yes" reply from me. (not the cat or some pretty/wacko artistic picture or drawing of something else, or you or the Little Mermaid looking off into distant space.) If I cannot see your face, I will not host you.

I will ALWAYS accept a Couch Request from active members of GuestPlaces.net (if I am not already booked)

I do not smoke. There is no smoking inside my home.

FRIEND REQUEST?
Really? Why?
First, please read the section, "My Friends List" below if you really want to connect as "Friends".

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To discover what it's like to live in all of the places I visit, and to seize every opportunity to establish life-long friendships with generous people everywhere. When I CouchSurf, I usually stay in a single destination for as long as three months so that I can feel what it's actually like to live there.

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This profile once included many photos and interesting links to the items mentioned in it. These links, photos, graphics and other features no longer work on the new disfunctional CS system. I work to restore them, but the new corporate CS has made everything about CouchSurfing as difficult as possible.

I know that the foundation and the very core purpose of Couchsurfing is to host and assist travelers. With the support of other veteran Couchsurfers, I am currently developing a new hospitality-exchange website at www.GuestPlaces.net dedicated to maintaining this foundation and 'core purpose', restoring essential original CS ideals of generosity and service, and developing user support functions that work. GuestPlaces is not for all CSers. Membership is completely free but requires a degree of committment to what we do.
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GuestPlaces
I am the creator/webmaster of an alternate hospitality-exchange experience at GuestPlaces.net.
You can join GuestPlaces to send me a Guest Request there.
Here is my GuestPlaces sample profile: https://guestplaces.net/JTu9xkrQGDr7/profileEX?C20081012013839
(right-click to browse in a separate tab)
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MY FRIENDS LIST
I am honored by your interest in adding me to your CS friends, but I want you to know that I do not just "collect" friends for numbers on CS or any other platform. I do not want to have you only as one more on my list. Every one of my profile friends is a good personal one, someone I know, one of my own Hosts or Surfers, that I have met in person and who will always be welcome to Surf with me, and with whom I will be equally welcome to stay when I am traveling in their city.

I want your Friend Request to be equally as personal as my friendship. I'm NOT asking for a reference. (They are NOT what I want.) Just a friendly PM to accompany your request that lets me know I'm not just another number on your Friends List.

Please drop me a short message to say, "Ciao!", that I am welcome to surf at your place, and something-something-something. Then I will, of course, accept you as much more valuable to me than simply "Number 666".

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I DESPISE-HATE-DETEST Facebook
I struggle not to use Facebook for any CouchSurfing activity. I'm dismayed to see so much CSing that requires it. The entire set of social websites serve only the purposes of capitalist greed and/or corporate/government abuse. I'm concerned about privacy, especially now that CS is a data-mining, profit=based corporation directly affiliated with Facebook, and I'm cautious about the way we all voluntarily surrender our civil rights when we participate in these internet atrocities. I am quite amazed and distressed to see that so many people do not seem to care about their privacy and integrity.
Right-click this to hear about Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NowThisPolitics/videos/459956928026465/UzpfSTgxODM0MDExNjoxMDE2Mjc4OTY5MDc5MDExNw/

Je suis un chef de cuisine, j'adore faire la cuisine, et je veux de CouchSurf avec VOUS!

Perhaps you will enjoy watching some of my cooking show videos: Right-click here to cook with me. https://rodneyrecor.com/FrenchChef/
(right-click to browse in a separate tab)

If you like food and cooking in Paris, join me at the Sunday Morning Market.

I spent most of my life in the Hollywood cinema business producing and directing with a little bit of acting, too. I was once the Film Archivist at the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences, and worked on the Oscars show many times editing the film clips. I was on the original staff of the Los Angeles International Film Exposition, and I have met filmmakers from around the world.
Los Angeles is now part of my past and I may never return.

~~~~ J'ai passé la plupart de ma vie dans l'image des entreprises productrices d'Hollywood et de la direction. J'ai été une fois le film Archivist à l'Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences, et a travaillé sur le spectacle Oscar plusiers fois l'édition du film clips. J'étais sur le personnel de la Los Angeles International Film Exposition, et j'ai rencontré des cinéastes du monde entier.

Here is my Tribe Hollywood profile:
https://rodneyrecor.com/TribeHollywoodProfile.htm
(right-click to browse in a separate tab)

I have a small role in Olivier Assayas' film, "Après Mai". Shooting was several summers ago in Paris.

In this photo taken in the Carolwood Room at Walt Disney World, I am standing next to a special display that I installed myself, of Walt Disney's backyard train, Lilly Belle: https://rodneyrecor.com/ph/wLillyB.jpg

My family name, Recor is an american mis-spelling of Ricard that first appeared in the United States census of 1880. Mon arrière, arrière, ....arrière grand-père, M. Fulerland Ricard est né en 1600 (peut-être un copin d'Artagnan?) à Pézenas, Hérault, Languedoc. (https://www.google.com/maps/place/P%C3%A9zenas,+France/@43.461766,3.423271,13z/data=!4m2!3m1!1s0x12b14028bb727833:0x7af0f271d51ac9bb?hl=en) En 1653 son fils, Antoine est arrivé à Québec de France avec la famille; son épouse, Doudeux Barboize et son fils de 4 ans, Jean Richard Ricard. Bien sûr, personne ne s'entendait avec l'Angleterre dans les jours, et après 1776, ma famille a déménagé dans le sud du frontière de l'État de New York. Mon père est né en Plattsburgh plusieurs générations plus tard.I visited Pézenas for the first time in 2012, CouchSurfing with my dear friend Isabelle Dosmond.

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The Paris PICNIC DU JOUR

In Paris, I am the creator of "le Paris Picnic du Jour" ~ Une Tradition Parisienne depuis 2009. When you visit Paris, meet me there

Right-click to check it out:
https://www.couchsurfing.com/groups/le-paris-picnic-du-jour

2024 would have been the 16th summer of the Picnic du Jour in Paris.
It's been interrupted by Covid and a few visits to hospital, but I hope we can resume in 2025 - especially to see Notre Dame restored! (i am a monthly donor to the project.)
COME TO THE PICNIC du JOUR!

(Regrettably, I have not been in Paris for over 8 years now due to a couple of stays in hospital. I suppose everyone knows that in my greedy country, there is no right to medical care, so the expense of my health care has precluded traveling for so long.)
I am fully engaged as a writer, political activist, and local organizer working to defeat and utterly destroy the current monster president of my country who is trying to erase democracy from the Earth.

Those of you "etrangers" who want to learn the words to 'la Marseillaise' before you have to sing it, can do so on my website at this link: https://eneurope.net/Musique/chansons.html

And while you are at it, have some fun here, too: https://rodneyrecor.com/fireworks.shtml
(This is a java app which, regrettably only works in the 'Pale Moon' browser these days.)

I spend winters in North Carolina where some of my CouchSurfing friends from Paris and around the world visited me in my little village of Carrboro, "The Paris of the Piedmont". I host a weekly CS fine food event second Wednesday -- an evening of cooking and learning known as "French Cooking in Carrboro". I also make more CouchSurfer friends hosting Chapel Hill/Carrboro "Un-Potluck" Wednesdays and "Saturday Pizza Nite in Carrboro".

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PHILOSOPHY

I have learned that service to others is the highest form of relationship. I also know that all things happen in just the perfect way, and that when I do not resist my experiences of life, and "go with the flow", that everything works out very well, and the quality of my own life continuously improves.
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J'ai appris que le service aux autres est l'activité la plus importante pour moi. Je sais aussi que toutes les choses exactement de la façon parfaite, et que lorsque je n'ai pas résister à mes expériences de vie, et de "suivre le mouvement», que tout fonctionne très bien, et la qualité de ma propre vie s'améliore continuellement.

I am not gay.
I do not want to be sexually approached by men on this website.

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

HOW I PARTICIPATE IN COUCHSURFING

After organizing and hosting in Los Angeles, I left there in April 2009. I am now traveling in France and around Europe for extended periods of time, seeking a couch for myself wherever I go, organizing events and participating in many CS activities. My home base is usually Carrboro, North Carolina.

~~~ J'ai pris ma retraite de l'industrie cinématographique et a quitté Los Angeles en avril 2009. Je suis maintenant un voyage en France et en Europe pour une période de temps.

Let's get off on the right foot. I despise the new corporate Couchsurfing for it's complete disregard of stalkers and sexual predators on the system, and this 'marginally effective' website. I wonder what incompetent and disconnected americans it must take to create a website like this one! I'm quite disappointed with those responsible for the ruin of the magnificent original Couchsurfing concept and system that served the community for so long.

I am also on BeWelcome, TrustRoots, and GuestPlaces.net. You can ask me for a couch on those sites.

I also contribute the CS Paris Support Web Page at enEurope https://eneurope.net/CSParis/ to the Paris CS community.
(right-click to browse in a separate tab)

I was on the Org Team of Paris Rendez-vous 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, 2024 and 2015.

I organize at least 5 events during Paris Rendez-Vous, including a Day Trip to Claude Monet's Home and Gardens in Giverny.

Past Paris Rendez-Vous Programs:
Paris Rendez-Vous 2012
Paris Rendez-Vous 2011
(Sorry, these are links that no longer work on the CS website.)

Every summer we celebrate the
Anniversary "PICNIC du JOUR" PICNIC. 2024 would have been the 16th summer of the Picnic du Jour. https://www.couchsurfing.com/events/picnic-6th-anniversary-picnic-du-jour

I was organizer of two trips to Versailles including Les Grands Eaux Nocturnes, a day of theatre in the park, and I am the creator of the Paris 'Picnic du Jour'.

During the winter in Chapel Hill, North Carolina I host many wonderful CSers passing through that "neck of the woods" before I return to Paris. When I am in Carolina for the summer, I host "Pizza Nite in Carrboro". Many joined me in my Carrboro home for my CS cooking event, "Cuisine Français à Carrboro", or at the weekly Potluck dinner. I hosted the Triangle Potluck twice.

I especially encourage my dear friends from Paris, and all of my friends from around the world that I met in Paris, to visit me in the States — my favorite place in the USA is North Carolina and I spend most of my time in the States there.

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I have organized Christmas Dinner in Paris and
American-Syle Thanksgiving Holidays in France and England

I was Monday Night Quizmaster in Paris 3 times.
Quizmaster again maybe someday.

I'm phasing off of Facebook. I do not like to use it, especially for CouchSurfing. (You really have no idea how offensive the use of Facebook is by the US government) So please don't use it for CouchSurfing with me.

COUCHSURFING EXPERIENCE

SURFING HISTORY:
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France / Off to England / back to Paris for Christmas / my first trip to Morocco / a couple of days in Madrid / Back to France for many summers in Paris / an apartment in Ville d'Avray, right accross the street from Cybele's orphanage in one of my favorite films, "Les Dimanches de Ville d'Avray"

The south of France - Lanqudoc and Cote d'azur

I want to meet CSers everywhere, so If I did not find you yet and you want to meet, please feel free to contact me.

ACTIVITIES:
Made Quiche for the teachers at Nico's College / Paris Quiz Master 4 Times / Mini KPizza chez Pablo / Chef Rodney cooking for party chez Anh Khanh / Moliere in the Bois de Boulogne / Guest Chef aboard the houseboat "Saint Antoine" / At the Art Gallery opening in S.G. des Pres / Organized the first of "Picnic du Jour" in 2009 / Helped to make crepes at Dule's / Entered RDV Cooking Contest / Cooking again on board the "Saint Antoine" / Organized an evening at Versailles /
Made a Film History presentation to students of Boldon School in northeast England / Organized Thanksgiving Dinner in England / Santacon Paris / Hosted CS Christmas Dinner in Paris

In Los Angles I welcomed travelers to Los Angeles from around the world. I offered friendship, and introduced them to Hollywood and southern California. I also participated in many CS events in LA, and because I am a chef, I especially enjoyed cooking parties, picnics, and potluck dinners.
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A Los Angeles, je me suis félicité de voyageurs à destination de Los Angeles à travers le monde. J'ai proposé l'amitié, et présenté à Hollywood et le sud de la Californie. J'ai également participé à de nombreux événements dans CS LA, et parce que je suis un chef, j'ai particulièrement apprécié la cuisine parties, les pique-niques, repas et dîners.

Interests

I am a gourmet cook, organic gardener, and play bluegrass fiddle. I participate in many cooking interest groups, I am a film historian and classic film enthusiast. I am especially interested in French and Roman history. I am planning a special event on Meetup.com called the Balader Romain, an annual walk from Rome to Lutecia.
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Je suis un gourmet cuisinier, jardinier bio, et de jouer du violon bluegrass. Je participe à de nombreux groupes d'intérêt de cuisine, je suis historien et d'un film classique de film amateur. Je suis particulièrement intéressé par le français et l'histoire romaine. Je suis la planification d'un événement spécial sur Meetup.com appelé le Balader Romain, une marche annuelle de Rome à Lutèce.

• arts
• acting
• civil rights
• dining
• cooking
• potluck
• picnic
• modeling
• partying
• gardening
• flowers
• movies
• traveling
• cartography
• genealogy
• history

Music, Movies, and Books

I make pictures myself, active in the Paris filmmaking community. I directed a movie in Paris recently, and I shall be directing another picture again soon, I hope.

My favorite movies are those that portray real human situations and are about the emotions, concerns, fears, and desires that are common to all people in every country of the world. My most recent favorite is Elle s'Appellait Sarah. Some of my enduring favorites are: Jean de Florette et Manon des Sources, Les Dimanches de Ville d'Avray, La Cage aux Folles, The Reader, Derzu Uzala, Citizen Kane, Casablanca, Second-Hand Lions, The Imposters, Wicker Park, Hors de Prix, Who Is Killing the Great Chefs of Europe?, l'Année Derniere à Marienbad, Miss Potter, The Usual Suspects, Sleuth (Olivier/Caine), The Seven Percent Solution, Vertigo, 84 Charing Cross Road, The April Fools, Charade, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Oscar, Invasion of The Body Snatchers (1956), Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy, Amélie, Moulin Rouge, Dr. Strangelove, Woman In The Window (Fritz Lang), Somewhere In Time, Much Ado About Nothing (Branaugh), Dr. Zhivago, Chicago, Lawrence of Arabia, Bridge on The River Kwai, Walt Disney's Alice in Wonderland (1951), and all Kubrick.

To enjoy some film clips...
Click Here: https://rodneyrecor.com/FilmFestival
(right-click to browse in a separate tab)

Books I enjoy are usually historical fiction, weird/original stuff, and caring, human dramas. Alexandre Dumas has been a significant influence in my life. Some of my favorite books are To Kill A Mockingbird, The d'Artagnan and Musketeers saga, The Count of Monte Cristo, Les Miserables, Gone With The Wind, Skinny Legs and All, The Time Travelers Wife, The Magus.

I most enjoy classical music and jazz (especially 1930s).
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Mes films préférés sont ceux qui illustrent des situations réelles de l'homme et sur les émotions, les préoccupations, les craintes et les désirs qui sont communs à toutes les personnes dans tous les pays du monde.

J'aime livres sont généralement des soins et de la fiction historique, des drames humains.

Je profiter de la plupart de musique classique et de jazz.

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

I've met many extraordinary people. Among them are Walt Disney, Charlie Chaplin, Mary Pickford, Orson Welles, and Neil Armstrong. Over the years, since going to Hollywood at age 19, I've met a lot of my childhood screen heroes including actors, directors, writers, cinematographers, and many illustrious international filmmakers.
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Je suis fait la connaisaince de Jean Renoir, François Truffaut, et Henri Langlois. Après son arrivée à Hollywood à l'âge de 19 ans, j'ai rencontré au fil des ans un grand nombre de héros de mon enfance écran, acteurs, réalisateurs, écrivains et cinéastes, et aussi pour répondre à d'illustres cinéastes internationaux.

Teach, Learn, Share

Please visit this web link to practice your french language skills by singing songs:
(right-click to browse in a separate tab)
https://rodneyrecor.com/chansons/

I always look forward to times when I can share my experience of motion picture making and teach what are the important aspects of constructive cinema criticism and scholarship. As an expert-level gourmet chef, I very much enjoy teaching people how to cook. I am also an accomplished organic grower and I can teach you to play my fiddle.
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J'ai toujours hâte de fois où je peux partager mon expérience de cinéma et de faire enseigner ce que sont les aspects importants de la critique constructive de cinéma et de l'érudition. Comme un expert de niveau gourmet chef, j'ai bien profiter de l'enseignement aux gens comment faire la cuisine. Je suis aussi un producteur accompli organiques et je peux vous apprendre à jouer de mon violon.

TO MY CS FRIENDS IN RUSSIA
TO MY CS FRIENDS IN UKRAINE
Until Mr. Putin is dealt with
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IF YOU CAN SEE THIS
IF YOU ARE ABLE TO CONTACT ME
If you can get out of Russia and have nowehere to go,
you may come here to live with me in North Carolina, USA
for as long as necessary. If you cannot buy an airplane ticket
from somewehere in the EU to the USA, I will help you.
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Message me here via CouchSurfing
Message me using the Contact feature on my website: https://rodneyrecor.com
I am also rodneyrecor at gmail dot com
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Countries I’ve Visited

Austria, Canada, France, Germany, Ireland, Italy, Mexico, Monaco, Morocco, Russian Federation, Spain, Switzerland, Turkey, United Kingdom

Countries I’ve Lived In

England, France, Germany, United States

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