Alla fine io penso davvero che morire in dignità è amare la vita——Emma Bonino
United in Diversity——motto of European Union

https://linktr.ee/siamoqueer

🇵🇸🇺🇦🇹🇼🇪🇺🇺🇳🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
Born at 371ppm 🕊️
Raised in China 🌍
they/them/schwa 🌈
Human Rights Defender🗽
Psychedelic Mushrooms 🍄
AMAB NeuroQueer Poly 🌹
Gender Non Conforming 🦄
简中 繁中 English Italiano 🧠
AuDHD CPTSD Venlafaxine 💊
Political Asylum Seeker in the EU🗳️
Foodie 🥗🍝🍜🍲🍛🍣🍱🥟🦪🍤🍦🍿🧋
Physical touch, friends with benefits, deep talk 🧸

Agnostic Atheist
Does not believe any god exists
Doesn't claim to know that no god exists

What I stand for?
Only yes means yes
Cannabis friendly 🍃
Psychedelic friendly 💊
Watch How to Change Your Mind | Netflix Official Site
Queer friendly 🏳️‍🌈 https://database.ilga.org/en
Abortion friendly 🫃 https://reproductiverights.org/maps/worlds-abortion-laws/
Euthanasia friendly
Sex work friendly 🍑
Neurodiverse friendly 🧠
Climate friendly 🌍 https://www.earthhero.org/en_GB/act
Vaccine friendly 💉
Free Palestine 🇵🇸 https://www.jewishvoiceforpeace.org
Keep Taiwan Free 🇹🇼 https://keeptaiwanfree.org

What I can’t stand?
Not a party animal🪩
Alcohol free 🍷
Smoking free 🚭

If you are QUEER, you can try https://quouch-app.com
You can ask me for the invite code:)

🏳️‍🌈 Assigned Male At Birth & Gender Queer, they/them
🏳️‍⚧️ Transgender rights supporter, but Thoroughly opposed to net violence JK Rowling , Stand firm against the cancel culture and defend freedom of expression
🇹🇼 Human Rights Defender. Assigned Chinese At Birth. Born and raised in People's Republic of China: A totalitarian state under the one-party rule of the Chinese Communist Party . Support Taiwan Democratic Progressive Party, Against Xi Jinping - China's Expansion
🇺🇦 Atlanticist. Support for NATO, support for military aid to Ukraine, opposition to Putin-Russia authoritarian expansion. World peace is only possible if the aggressor is defeated
🗽 Left-wing libertarians. Freedom is not free. Fight for civil rights. Focus on five major legalization issues: same-sex marriage, marijuana, euthanasia, abortion, and sex work
💪 The rights to health and education are fundamental human rights, Freedom of speech and the press are the mother of all freedoms
🚭 Creating second-hand smoke without the consent of others
❌🍷Don’t drink alcohol but like juice🧃 🥤 tea🍵 ☕️ 🫖 and cappuccino, not a party animal, enjoy peace
🗳️ No taxation without representation, The right to vote is a basic human right
📓 To do all that is humanly possible, to be reconciled to one’s lot

🖊️ Member of PEN International - Independent Chinese PEN

🧠 CPTSDer neurodivergent
I have suffered long periods of humiliation and mind control from my parents and teachers, as well as from the Chinese government's repression of political dissidents .
The symptoms that have long plagued me are dysautonomia, body tension for no apparent reason, unstable self-esteem, toxic shame, emotional flashbacks, uncontrolled flashes of energy...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Complex_post-traumatic_stress_disorder
💊 Venlafaxine 150mg/d (ex Olanzapine 2.5mg/d · ex Microdosing)

🧑‍🎓 School of Psychology, University of Padua(dropped out of）
💬 Possess a B1 certificate in Italian CELI
🐣 Born in 2001 January

🎵 Radiohead, Beatles, The Doors, Pink Floyd, Li Zhi, Hiperson, deca joins, No Party For Caodong
📖 Albert Camus, George Orwell, Hannah Arendt, Tony Judt, Simone Weil, Liu Xiaobo, Ai Weiwei , Gao Xingjian
🎬 An Elephant Sitting Still, Cloud Atlas, The Hunt, Revolution of Our Times, The Distinguished Citizen, Detachment

What I love？
* Visit livehouses and enjoy live music in China, but I didn't do it in Italy because I still need to get used to the environment
* Love animals. It's a pity that I didn't find a big zoo in Italy, if you have a place to recommend, please let me know!
* Prefer the sea more than the forest because I can usually lie on the beach and enjoy the sun while in the forest I have to worry about mosquito bites
* I love psilocybin mushrooms so much… I didn't hallucinate, but I still feel incredibly chill... Deeply … I want more... I think I can fall in love with the world again… A world without God, where everything is a creation of nature...

What I hate?
*Don’t say “ I have some happy experience can share with you and it can make u happy”, I also can feel happy everyday
*Don’t judge . Share experience and options . Remember, there is no a correct answer about life
*Don't smoke in front of me . Secondhand smoke makes me want to vomit
*Don’t drink alcoholic beverages , because I'm on medication, but I don't mind your drinking (except alcoholism) .But I like tea ,soia milk and juice
*No rolling luggage (wheeled suitcases). They are usually dirty, they scratch the floor . Please use backpacks！

Where did I live?
PRC
Shenzhen(2001-2006)
Shaoguan(2012)
Zhuhai (2006-2018)
Guangzhou (2018)
Beijing (2018-2020)
Nanjing (2020)
Shanghai (2020)
Italy
Venice (2021-2022)
Ferrara (2022-2023)
Padova(2023-)

Where did I visit?
PRC:Hangzhou,Chengdu,Chongqing,Tianjin,Changsha,Kunming,Changchun,Hong-Kong,Macao…
🇮🇹Italy:Napoli,Bolzano,Vicenza,Verona,Roma,Bologna,Firenze,Torino,Urbino,Milano…
🇩🇪Germany: Nuremberg,Aachen,Berlin,Munich,Frankfurt,Mainz,Cologne
🇵🇱Poland: Krakow,Wrocław,Warsaw
🇦🇹Austria: Vienna
🇧🇬Buglia: Sofia,Bansko
🇷🇴Romania: Bucharest
🇳🇴Norway: Oslo
🇩🇰Denmark: Copenhagen
🇸🇪Sweden: Stockholm
🇧🇪Belgium: Brussels,Ghent,Leuven,Aalst
🇨🇭Switzerland: Geneva
🇫🇷France: Nice,Strasbourg
🇲🇹Malta
🇱🇹Lithuania: Kaunas,Vilnius
🇪🇪Estonia: Tallinn
🇫🇮Finland: Helsinki
🇱🇻Latvia: Riga
🇨🇿Czech: Prague,Brno
🇪🇸Spain: Madrid,Seville
🇳🇱Netherlands: Eindhoven,Rotterdam,The Hague
🇬🇷Greece: Athens

East & Southeast Asia - 3/19
🇨🇳 China, 🇭🇰 Hong Kong, 🇲🇴 Macau

Europe - 21/58
🇦🇹 Austria, 🇧🇪 Belgium, 🇧🇬 Bulgaria, 🇨🇿 Czech Republic, 🇩🇰 Denmark, 🇪🇪 Estonia, 🇫🇮 Finland, 🇫🇷 France, 🇩🇪 Germany, 🇬🇷 Greece, 🇮🇹 Italy, 🇱🇻 Latvia, 🇱🇹 Lithuania, 🇲🇹 Malta, 🇳🇱 Netherlands, 🇳🇴 Norway, 🇵🇱 Poland, 🇷🇴 Romania, 🇪🇸 Spain, 🇸🇪 Sweden, 🇨🇭 Switzerland

TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️
*Couchsurfing is not Tinder
*Since a gay I met in hang out in Vienna who often pinched my face and talked about his sex life, please note that you must get my consent before engaging with me , including pinching my face and talking with sex topic
* A man suddenly sent me a private message saying that my nails are beautiful, he welcomes me to his heart, and asks if I have only fans. I've put the screenshots in the album “Offensive”

If you host me:
*Usually travel with low-cost airline when I go abroad .I only take a huge backpack , there is no space to take sleeping back . If you could provide me a quilt and a towel, I will be very thankful !
*Prefer spending time with local people, but if you are not able to stay with me , I can also travel by myself !
*Can cook some simple Chinese food, for example scrambled eggs with tomatoes or fish! You can check more in the album "Cook" !

For everyone :
Please leave a reference after each meeting , it doesn't need a lot of words, I just want to get your feedback .
I met a person who promised to leave a reference after parting, but they deleted my contact after they left, it really annoyed me that I had already leave them a good reference…

I have heard a saying that although pets cannot accompany us for life, we can accompany pets for life…

Rainbow Pie,Buon Pride 🌈
Blog: https://rainbowpie.art.blog

•How to save money while paying: https://revolut.com/referral/zhaoya6v49!FEB2-23-AR

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

*Honestly speaking, the primary purpose is to save on travel expenses. But just as importantly, I don't like hotels or hostels, and I especially like to have local people who can show me around the city and build deep connections with people
*Day to day life make me depressed
*Try to trust people

Interests

I'm an Apple fan because the company is known for its industrial design and protection of privacy and the environment.
I own a full set of Apple smart devices (iPhone Plus, iPad mini, Apple Watch, MacBook Air, HomePod mini, Airpods Pro).
But because I can't afford an Apple smart home, I use some Xiaomi smart homes that can connect to HomeKit.
Like air purifier, mopping robot, table lamp, bedside lamp, pet feeder, pet water dispenser .
Of course, I would love to support Fairphone, I just don't have any more money to buy another phone ：）
https://www.fairphone.com；https://www.apple.com/environment；https://www.apple.com/privacy

Make products that protect privacy and promise early carbon neutrality a part of my daily life.
Search Engine：https://duckduckgo.com；https://www.startpage.com
Browser：https://brave.com；https://www.mozilla.org
End-to-end encrypted email：https://proton.me；https://tutanota.com
VPN：https://surfshark.com
End-to-end encrypted instant messaging：https://www.signal.org
Open source password management ：https://bitwarden.com
End-to-end encrypted network drive：https://mega.io

Support independent media, Defending press freedom:https://www.theguardian.com；https://matters.news

Support sex education：https://www.brook.org.uk

• psychedelics
• psychedelic rock

Music, Movies, and Books

💽 Classical & Psychedelic & Indie Rock & Post Punk & American Country Folk
🧑‍🎤 The Doors, Li Zhi, Hiperson, deca joins, No Party For Caodong
🎵 White Rabbit by Jefferson Airplane, Hey Jude by Beatles, Imagine by John Lennon, Lift by Radiohead, Ceremony by Joy Division, Us and Them by Pink Floyd, Psycho Killer by Talking Heads, Cluster in the Nightfall by Railway Suicide Train,
📖 Dystopia
Albert Camus, 1984 by George Orwell, Hannah Arendt, Tony Judt, Milan Kundera, Aldoux Huxley, Liu Xiaobo, Ai Weiwei
Non-Violent Communication by Marshal B. Rosenberg
🎥 An Elephant Sitting Still, Cloud Atlas, The Hunt, Revolution of Our Times, The Distinguished Citizen, Detachment, Hamilton, How to Change Your Mind , Wild Wild Country
📺
Severance (2022‑  Serie TV)
The End of the F***ing World (2017‑2019 Serie TV)
Black Mirror (2011‑2019 Serie TV)
Sex Education (2019‑  Serie TV)
Chernobyl (2019‑2019 Mini serie TV)
The World Between Us (2019‑  Serie TV)
Island Nation (2020‑  Serie TV)
Squid Game (2021‑  TV Series)
Heartstopper(2022- TV Series)

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

Social responsibility actions

* Confrontation with totalitarianism
Launching the Orwell Project, providing free VPN for Chinese internet users https://orwell8964.wordpress.com

* Defending Collective Memory
Launching the “Searching for 8964” project to resist the Chinese Communist Party's strangulation of memory and tampering with the truth https://instagram.com/china198964 https://8964museum.com https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/1989_Tiananmen_Square_protests_and_massacre

*Climate Justice
Use ecosia as my default search engine and have planted 59 trees so far https://www.ecosia.org
Use bunq as my main savings bank and have planted 10 trees so far https://www.bunq.com
Zero dollars for the Apple store to recycle an iPad Pro that I stepped on https://www.apple.com/environment
Not vegan, but also lactose intolerant, replacing cow's milk with soy milk

*Use of voting right 🗳️
-06/12/2022, Student Elections at the University of Padua, vote for UDU, Electronic Voting
-07/02/2023, Italian Democratic Party Secretary Election, Party Primaries, vote for Elly Schlein, Ferrara
-12/02/2023, Più Europa Congressional Representative Election, vote for Next Generation +EU, Electronic Voting
-26/02/2023, Italian Democratic Party Primary Election, vote for Elly Schlein, Ferrara

* Vaccinations completed
three doses of HPV-IX
four doses of Covid-19
since 2022 Influenza
Diphtheria-Pertussis-Tetanus
Measles-Rubella-Mumps-Varicella
Monkeypox-Smallpox

* Small Donations
Partito Democratico 10€ https://www.partitodemocratico.it
Più Europa 25€ https://www.piueuropa.eu
Volt Italia 20€ https://www.voltitalia.it
Volt Europa https://www.volteuropa.org
Partito Socialista Italiano 15€ https://www.partitosocialista.it
Movimento Federalista Europeo 26€ https://www.mfe.it
Union of European Federalists https://www.federalists.eu
Reporters without Borders 15€ https://rsf.org
Privacy Network 25€ https://privacy-network.it
Road to 50% 20€ https://www.roadto50.eu
radicali italiani 50€ https://radicali.it
Associazione Luca Coscioni 100€ https://www.associazionelucacoscioni.it
Libera contro le mafie 5€ https://www.libera.it
Arcigay Milano 10€ https://www.arcigaymilano.org
Meglio Legale 15€ https://megliolegale.it
Unione degli Atei e degli Agnostici Razionalisti 10€ https://www.uaar.it
端傳媒 349HKD https://theinitium.com

Teach, Learn, Share

Everything related to Mental Health : medicine,meditation,circling, Nonviolent Communication, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy,Somatic experience etc.

What I Can Share with Hosts

The Union is founded on the values of respect for human dignity, freedom, democracy, equality, the rule of law and respect for human rights, including the rights of persons belonging to minorities. These values are common to the Member States in a society in which pluralism, non-discrimination, tolerance, justice, solidarity and equality between women and men prevail.——TREATY OF LISBON

https://eur-lex.europa.eu/legal-content/EN/TXT/?uri=CELEX%3A12007L%2FTXT

My dear, with your love I can calmly face my impending trial, having no regrets about the choices I’ve made and optimistically awaiting tomorrow. I look forward to [the day] when my country is a land with freedom of expression, where the speech of every citizen will be treated equally well; where different values, ideas, beliefs, and political views … can both compete with each other and peacefully coexist; where both majority and minority views will be equally guaranteed, and where the political views that differ from those currently in power, in particular, will be fully respected and protected; where all political views will spread out under the sun for people to choose from, where every citizen can state political views without fear, and where no one can under any circumstances suffer political persecution for voicing divergent political views. I hope that I will be the last victim of China’s endless literary inquisitions and that from now on no one will be incriminated because of speech.——“I Have No Enemies:My Final Statement”Liu Xiaobo

https://www.nobelprize.org/prizes/peace/2010/xiaobo/lecture

None of us is great enough for such a task. But in all circumstances of life, in obscurity or temporary fame, cast in the irons of tyranny or for a time free to express himself, the writer can win the heart of a living community that will justify him, on the one condition that he will accept to the limit of his abilities the two tasks that constitute the greatness of his craft: the service of truth and the service of liberty. Because his task is to unite the greatest possible number of people, his art must not compromise with lies and servitude which, wherever they rule, breed solitude. Whatever our personal weaknesses may be, the nobility of our craft will always be rooted in two commitments, difficult to maintain: the refusal to lie about what one knows and the resistance to oppression.——“Banquet speech”Albert Camus

https://www.nobelprize.org/prizes/literature/1957/camus/speech

Political coordinate system test：
· https://www.idrlabs.com/political-coordinates/test.php , my result is 8.3% Leftists , 58.3% Liberalism
· https://8values.github.io , my result is 60.9% Equality, 77.8% Globe , 74.2% Liberty , 79% Progress
· https://rightvaluestest.github.io , my result is 97.2% Reform, 60% Intervention, 82.5% Constitution, 55% Particular, 100% Seperation , 75% Accelerate, 62.5% Multicultural, match Geolibertarianism

I had a fascination with charismatic figures like Elon Musk, but I became a staunch opponent of Elon Musk in light of all the things he has done since he changed Twitter to stupid X. Morally I support Giuliano Assange's release.

Countries I’ve Visited

Austria, Belgium, Bulgaria, China, Czech Republic, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Hong Kong, Italy, Latvia, Lithuania, Macao, Malta, Netherlands, Norway, Poland, Romania, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland

Countries I’ve Lived In

China, Italy