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Overview
About Me
I love to travel and meet interesting people from different cultures. I have been the recipient of many generous people in my life and want to pay it forward by hosting.
My apartment is a classic San Francisco flat - small but stylish and cozy.
I’m a naturist and prefer to host other nudists or those willing to try. Please acknowledge this in your request.
When not working, I'm happy to spend time with you and show you around on my Vespa.
I love interesting conversations over music and good cocktails. 420 friendly. 🍄.
Happy to engage you in a game of chess, meditation, massage exchange or calisthenics.
I'm a psychologist and sex therapist at a university.
I mentor entrepreneurs and global business leaders
Special interests include the intersection of technology and AI with sex, dating, and relationships.
I prefer phone-free interactions - please be mindful of your tech use and I promise to do the same.
Also, please bathe and wear deodorant. I understand cultural and personal differences, but as a guest in my home, If I offer a shower, it’s probably b/c I think you need one!
Why I’m on Couchsurfing
I want to make friends, share experiences, learn different perspectives and ways of being.
Interests
- design
- fitness
- meditation
- sauna
- politics
- technology
- psychology
- travel
- massage
- nudist
- aesthetics
- stoicism
- artifical intelligence
- tantric
Music, Movies, and Books
My biggest love is music. I’m a fan of all generes and used to perform musical theater and opera.
I'm an avid reader - faves include Sapiens, Home Deus, Man's search for Meaning, The Gold Finch, The Coddling of the American Mind, Stolen Focus, The Anxiety Generation, Sex Before Dawn, Mating in Captivity, Dancer from The Dance, Call Me By Your Name
Favorite Thinkers: Sam Harris, Yuval Noah Harari, Esther Perel, Scott Galloway, Jonathan Haidt, Bill Maher
One Amazing Thing I’ve Done
I don’t know that my accomplishments are AMAZING, but I think they’re pretty diverse and interesting:
I’ve had 75 jobs since I was 10 years old. I was raised in a working class family and am first generation college graduate. I mowed yards and babysat, flipped burgers at McDonalds, waited tables in greasy diners and 5 star restaurants, had my own house cleaning business, choreographed show choirs and summer stock theater, acted in musicals and opera, taught elementary school music, was a missionary in Romania, planned corporate and social events, worked on Death Row at San Quintin, was a licensed massage therapist, earned a doctorate in psychology and now work as a psychologist at one of the most prestigious business schools in the world.
Teach, Learn, Share
Craft cocktails
Good conversation and healthy debate
Massage Exchange (I’m trained and have a table)
Countries I’ve Visited
Austria, Belgium, Canada, Croatia, Czech Republic, Denmark, France, Germany, Ireland, Italy, Mexico, Netherlands, Norway, Portugal, Romania, Spain, Sweden, United Kingdom
Countries I’ve Lived In
United States