How to live a life of maximal freedom? A strong, free life? One that has meaning beyond oneself and which grows to touch also others? One with space for wonder and miracles - a life of peaceful progress!

This is what I am building for myself, if it even can be built - but for sure there are better choices. At the moment I am travelling, teaching languages and conducting occasional hypnosis sessions, and amidst all of that I am studying my MA in Applied Linguistics, remotely, which I think has been the greatest idea ever!

Mostly I am social, radiant, sensitive, spontaneous, transparent and uncomplicated, but I'm also a trickster at times. Aaand we all have our moments of respectable downdrafts at times.
People tell me I'm a good listener, but don't worry, I can also entertain myself (if not others) with a nice speech or two - a speech so long I get sick of it!

There's a little documentary from a few years ago about me and my good friend Ukko. It will give you a good idea about me:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=few0gcBIvws&pp=ygUgam95IGZvciB0aGUgcGxhbmV0IGZpbmxhbmQgdmlsbGU%3D

I play a few instruments. Here is the duo of my friend and I - Naëmi & Vapaamieli
- https://www.youtube.com/@Naemi_and_Vapaamieli

My own music you find under the alias, Wzaker
- https://soundcloud.com/wzakerart

I am also building my website, which is still unfinished, but you can have a look if you are interested:
www.ikiside.fi

*** About Couchsurfing ***

I'm here to make friends and offer myself in service for you and your life - if I can be of any service. I am not afraid to seek deeper connections, but I respect other people's privacy and boundaries to the maximum, because that is love. I do not seek to exploit your generosity, nor would I allow you do the same. To me it is about a natural, unknown, yet unfolding interactional mystery that takes place between people. I only hope I can touch your life in any meaningful way.

I am enchanted by the CS community, and the adventurous ways to travel it enables, but I am disgusted by the annual payment - the people that exploit generosity or use this service as tinder.
We are all creating this platform. We are dictating its future.
So let's be better human beings <3

Here's a good article about it!
https://medium.com/@jameshopest/the-death-of-couchsurfing-a87d9537edf2

我为什么加入 Couchsurfing

Visiting a new country or a new place is so much greater when meeting people that have already spent some time there. It's like a shortcut inside, but for sure more meaningful than an alone stay in a hotel - although that is sometimes very much needed!

I'm also desperately interested in meeting new people and learning from them, also to inspire them and to let them inspire me! I will be especially grateful if you are able to make me confront myself and see something I am still blind to - and this happens automatically, without saying a word.
There isn't yet enough amazing encounters to color my path and I am open for more colourful people, minds and souls!

I celebrate the diversity of existence. WOHOHOHOHOO!

兴趣

• cooking
• vegetarian
• meditation
• partying
• music
• languages
• philosophy
• travelling
• cultures
• spirituality
• love
• jamming
• crazyness
• hypnosis
• psytrance
• energy healing
• joy
• trance
• traditional music
• tea <3
• open people
• being wild
• being true
• staying mentally as young as you can
• actual conversation

音乐、电影和书籍

Anything that has Spirit/Authentic Life - be that wild, raw, peaceful, celestial, crazy, hilarious - that is art. The translation/expression of the unique inner into the worldly. Or the expression of spirit in matter/form.

The latest amazement has been the movie, Dune! I am now reading all Frank Herbert's books in Portuguese. Anything that combines tough worldly reality with mysticism, philosophy, politics and technology/magic. These really speak to my inner world and the mystic there in. Esoterism awaits on my online book shelf.
I hate being in the box - so I seek outside it.

Life without music would be a huge loss, although I have discovered some bliss of silence - the most profound source of beauty for me. It is better described as Presence.

Presence invites presence.

我做过的一件不可思议的事情

Ok, so I don't know what is incredible, but here are some true stories

- Tragic, but still quite incredible. I have jumped from a cliff of 15 meters to the ground on my stomach and survived (my suicide attempt). (knowing I would survive, confusing I know...)

- I've been able to accumulate energy in (silent) meditation in a way that my feet were as if "burning "with heat (I consider that an accomplishment for myself)

- Once I moved my friend's (paralysed) arms with my will power alone! Yet it is not the only psychic experience to be shared. (I never did it again, though, because I found it a bit scary and irresponsible - because really, I didn't know what I was doing)

- One time I made a room full of people cry with a speech
- I've had telepathic experiences, also with horses and one peculiar cat!
- My friend and I organized a small Free Hugs event to evoke some smiles in the Finnish Winter!
- I've been canoeing 4 days alone with my wheelchair in the Finnish lakes. And then the storm arrived...
- Consider playing chess in a sauna in Germany for 2 hours?! (the toughest match ever)
- In Austria, Spain, Portugal and Italy I have ridden down mountain roads with my wheelchair (40-70km/h!!)!
- some consider travelling alone in a wheelchair for 8 months an accomplishment?

And although it is hardly amazing, I never got covid - actually I am almost never ill/sick.

教，学，和分享

So what can I share? How could I know before? Each encounter is a mystery unfolding. A sum of unknown factors.

Maybe I have some spiritual insight? Languages for sure.
Music I bring, as well as a few great dishes.
Most importantly myself.

I have felt my soul/spirit and understood that there is an unfloding process of wanting to get closer to that magnificence, beauty and perfection, I'd rather say wholeness, that we all have in ourselves.- the non-conceptual reality of lived experience that may be infinite, but that for sure invites the infinite.

Now I am learning about the various ideologies of the world, because of my language studies..

我可以与沙发主分享些什么

You never know before! - but I'm for sure an amazing time, if that can be said!

For sure cooking, most interesting discussions and plenty of joy and laughter - if it clicks!

我游览过的国家

England, Estonia, Israel, Italy, Morocco, Netherlands, Portugal, Slovenia, Spain, Sweden, Ukraine

我居住过的国家

Austria, England, Finland, Germany, Morocco, Portugal