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Overview
About Me
I am currently in KL/MY. If you want to meet up, cultural exchange, practice your English or explore city together..don't hesitate to contact me.
"Littlebit" about myself:229
Im solo traveler.
I lived 8 years in Italy (Rome) 2,9 in UK (London). I had my own business, worked in real estate and HR, in the past years in hospitality. I have two sisters (im the youngest). Don't be surprised I have a lot of practical-shortage names. The best one i had "no name" ;D
I'm very friendly, tolerant, reliable, honest, self-motivated, patient, I know what I want, sporty, social, easygoing, helpful, creative, motivator for others, addictions free, emotionally intelligent ;) independent, unstable, stylish, nice personality, confident, adventurous-free spirit (please no boyfriends, living together or marriage proposals :P and don't ask me why!! Its same as ask why birds fly? Why they should not if they have wings? Simply you see and experience more! ). Im sexy soul, bisexual-queer (by choice): love to date few people at the same period of time (multiple relationships), try something different.
I have problem solving, to do attitude and lgbt very friendly.
From 'negative' side: strong character. I can be strict and demanding, but its for the best. People say that i overthink, in my opinion i like clearify actions or sayings for have less waisting time and misunderstandings. I love to know what kind of persone i have in front of me, and what can I expect from it. Very often people say one thing and do the other, I like to think in advance, and anticipate/predict, thats my 'overthinking' :))
I appreciate people's punctuality, non discriminational behaviour, positive personality (thoughts, words, actions), emotional control, non-manipulation, simplicity and generosity. I love respectful, no-addictions or bad habbits, smartly prioritize, sporty, honest, some one reliable that you can trust, straight telling point and don't waist my time. Meditators. Travelers of the world, because they have so much to share. Who try and do their best for to be a better persone on everyday basis. Those are preference qualities, but I do love all colourful personalities, with good and bad qualities, who do mistakes, what makes us humans, and from who I always can learn something different.
I can't accept:
Lies. Life is too short for that, to rebuild trust its mission impossible . Easier just don't. :) im tolerant and always forgiving, i do my best to understand other part, thats way there is no reason.
The lazyness, it doesn't go along with my personality.
Ignorance and don't care attitude, I find it inhuman and egoistic.
Negativity: hmm who likes it? No one ;)
Disrespect, coz it is base of friendship.
Doing same mistake over and over. Its not trying hard enough.
Free time: time for my hobbies. ;)
My hobbies: camping, swimming, beach, to hike, to explore new cultures, to learn new languages, to know new people, make new friends, acting, fashion, talk, buddhism, food, vovinam, meditation, interviewing people, video books, antropology, archery, horse riding, social injustice, I walk (can do that forever) and explore new places, movies- have seen them all, but dont mind to rewatch the best once, lgbt bars, night life-dance not alcohol :)) and the TATW (trave around the world) just tell me who doesn't love that! :)
Sayings: 121
Find out who you are, and stop waisting the time on who you are not.
There are no bad expierences, just expierences that teach us, that way we can learn and grow.
Where you seed expectation, be aware, its fuel disapointment to grow.
When you close the door, instead of being sad, be excited to open the new once, you might be pleasurably surprised. :)
You can not be perfect, but you can make the best version of yourself, by hard work and dedication.
Advanced sayings:
See yourself in others. (Helping and making happy others its intelligent way of taking care of yourself.)
Stop asking way happening or why me. Karma works perfectly, simply learn to trust it and don't waist your time, energy and peace of mind on asking question that does not have the accurate answer.
Eg. Bad karma like your shoulderbag full of stones, when stone prow in time and cant fit in the bag any longer, it falls out and hurts your feet, you feel pain, but you should be happy, because you dont have to carry on that stone any more on your back. But for have less stones on your back, you have to discipline your mind and body not to produce more bad karmas (stones). Ofcourse you can do that, if you enjoy yourself experiencing pain and suffering. :)))
Short term goals:
get travel friend, learn vietnamese language, tefl course and volunteer english.
Long term goal:
Life coach course (my hobby to help people to be better)
IT course. Create apps and games, based on ski-fi and learning.
Write travel blog; its important to share the adventures.
Vovinam master for femails, for self confidence and self protection, feel fair free to travel alone or walk at night alone. Its time to end this dipendance and fairs.
Open company in Asia, when settle in city that I will love, and has more opportunities for me.
Currently: travel,online course, volunteer, learn vietnamese, meditate, practice vovinam, buddhism learning, making new friends.
Not to do:
Don't invite me for a coffee ( I don't drink it), for a tea in cafe's, coffee house or coffee shops. For me tea is a home thing or same as water.
Don't tell me what you are doing.
Don't ask me what I'm doing or was doing yesterday.
Don't smoke at all, or drink too much when around me. You know your limits.
I don't drink strong alcohols, including cocktails, don't eat beef, chicken or fish.
don't use abbreviation 'OK' check the meaning. It doesn't exist in English language, people started using it after political organisation named under the president birth place. the meaning is 'all correct' so don't use it instead of I agree, yes, fine or good. Don't use it when I'm around, or any other propaganda. It just show that you don't know the word meaning, others english words and your vocabulary is very poor. I know English speaking people do it, but propaganda also come from that side, so be aware.
Don't say sorry if you don't mean it, use the word just for excuse and continue doing what you was sorry about. Sorry means that you have to correct something, so think and do something about it, instead of cover or escape from responsibility what you did or said.
What to do:
Be friend.
Ask anything you are curious about. I'm very curious myself.
Ask/talk everything about life and travel experience, my opinion about any topic, my hobbies, my personal life (you will know me better).
Walk with me and explore together.
Watch a movie together.
Drink a wine together or dance. I love pork, vegetables and pasta.
Dinner at home or local street/market food, I'm not a restaurant type, and don't eat in the evening, but can make exceptions when feel like in the mood to do so.
My weaknesses, I hardly can say no to, I can not live without, my passions, interests:
Travel, try local food/drinks, meet and to know interesting personalities and travelers, monks/nuns, buddhism teachers.
Sports, physical activities, exercises
Black bedroom eyes.
Latin lovers: sensuality, mannerism, flirty, emotional vulcanos.
Beauty and cuteness.
If some one is free and use CS for dating and spend, enjoy time together (not relationships) i dont mind ;) i have noticed that my preferences are:
in shape, stylish, positive; pls no dramas or jealousy ;) simple and knd, dont mind empty wallet, there are lots of free activities, nice personality its way more entertaining... Onest, dont lie ever, no matter what, responsible. Be yourself. Altruistic.
No to: not in shape, i told here what i think about laziness and its disrespectful for your partner, lets admit we all like nice body to use ;)))
Smoke: smell awful. Drink too much, that you not able to use your brains, shorter: drunk. You have to know yourlimits. Negative anything: thinking, talking, doing. Your reactions to life shows who you are. You need to know how to resolve problems, because problems in life are our everyday bread. People who use their inteligence to manipulate others for to abtain what they want. Its awesome in bussiness and pls use it, but not in personal life, learn to see difference. Lies, egoistic, disonest, doublefaces.
I love the most:
When I see goodness in actions.
Peaceful places like monasteries.
Have courage to meet me? Cha cha:))
Countries I’ve Visited
France, Hungary, Indonesia, Japan, Portugal, Qatar, Singapore, Thailand, Tunisia, Ukraine, United Arab Emirates, United Kingdom
Countries I’ve Lived In
Canada, Poland